Don't Mind Me...

Thoughts of the Thoughtless

Okay, so now I know what an ass I really am.

I was seeing this guy I was crazy about. That NEVER happens to me. I usually never connect with guys, I stick around because I think they might be good guys, or fun. or hot. I think I have an emotional disconection. lol. So anyway, I was seeing this guy, and I wasn't playing games. I liked him. He knew it. I made myself available. Things were cool. Or so I thought.

He is an under cover drug/gun/gang cop, and a total hottie. We get along.  We laugh.  We flirt.  Crazy chemistry and fun risky sex.  All of a sudden he started to get busy (busier than usual, anyway) with work. You know the drill...... But on the rare occasion that I do get a random text message, he says he misses me, and still wants to see me, blah, blah, blah.

Ok, so in the past, I didn't go that far as to still tell a guy I missed him, and all that crap, but I did get "busy." I have never been on this end of the string-along-dating-game.

I don't like it.


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Jun. 2, 2008 at 2:41 PM From what I understand from friends and family that are in the law enforcement field, undercover is tough. They really have to immerse themselves in the "life" they are leading sometimes. It sounds like that's what happening. Now is a good time to figure out if you can deal with it because it is extremely stressful for the people in their lives.

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Jun. 2, 2008 at 2:45 PM

Thanks for responding.  Yeah, I thought of that.  My dad was a cop for 30 years, and said the same thing.  But I think if he is as crazy about me as he said he was, a 5 minute phone call wouldn't be too muck to ask.  Plus, he just got a promotion to Lieutenant last week.  At first he said his schedule would get better, no more undercover.  But now he says it's worse.  I haven't heard from him in a week.  But when I did it was the usual drill:  I miss you, don't give up on me yet, I want to see you.  I know he commutes home during the week around 5 now.  And he is supposed to have weekends off. He could call me then, right??? 

I don't like this one bit!!  lol.

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Jun. 2, 2008 at 2:55 PM

My dating Karma bit me in the ass too.  I fell in love with someone, only to have them leave me for his ex.   I mean shit, they're called ex's for a reason, right?

 My BIL is in law enforcement, and it can get rough.

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Jun. 2, 2008 at 10:31 PM This is why I have not started dating yet, I am not a game player.

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Jun. 4, 2008 at 12:11 PM Still???? I say keep living your life and don't wait around! I agree with you a 5 min phone call would mean alot!! xoxoxoxoxo

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Jun. 7, 2008 at 2:09 PM damn, i wish i had dating karma.  i've been married, going on twenty three years.

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Jun. 7, 2008 at 10:39 PM I could have written this myself !  Along with the seeing the undercover Narc cop !  Hope its not the same guy !   OOOF !!

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Jun. 29, 2008 at 12:43 PM I had emotional disconnection too LOL til I met Matt so I completely understand. Keep it up and be smart youll be fine or eh...just another guy huh? LOL bye girl

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