When I married my husband, he was a weekend dad. He moved into my life with my children (3 girls) for a year prior to our marriage. Little by little the birth mother had him (really me) take care of the girls more and more, which sent my household into chaos everytime. I told him that maybe they should live with us and visit their mother instead.

 A long story, short, his two girls now live with us full time (after living with us, returning to their drugged-out mother[I am being factual, not mean], and being taken into DHS custody) and I can't be the parent they need. I am so angry all of the time and cannot explain to their father, because I cannot understand why I don't like them.

I can't even come to terms with not liking these children. It is a huge mess, and I just can't pack and leave as we have a new baby as well. Any one have any clue how to FIX these problems?


Thank you

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Jun. 2, 2008 at 3:56 PM Family Counseling. Some things are beyond our repair and we just need help.

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Jun. 2, 2008 at 4:10 PM family counsling helped me and my now ex dh with his kids from is first marriage but it all worked out until one day i could tired of his mean bs and moved out and left

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