I just read the WORST post I've ever read!  The woman was going on and on about how horrible her step kids are and that the baby she's carrying will never be their brother, only HALF and she doesn't want them around at ALL when he's born...doesn't even want them to TOUCH him...What the HELL is wrong with people?  I realize that I'm not married, but David has TWO kids from TWO different marriages, nope I have never met the younger one, and that's all on the mother there, because we can't find her, however, his DD is 12, and she's here just about every other weekend, or in the summer sometimes a little bit every day!  Yes, sometimes she can get on my nerves, but before I had my kids, I loved her like my own and still do!  I don't make her call me mom, and I don't discipline her unless her Dad isn't home and she needs called out, but I remember when David and I first got together...he would get SO mad, because I'd be spending more time with her than him lol!  She was soooo cute, and my mom would take her to church and to McDonalds and if we lived closer to her, she'd probably still do that with my kids!  My mom even has her on her myspace in a pic, listed under MY GRANDKIDS!  How can you be soooo mean to kids, who have NO control over what is going on in their lives???  It wasn't them who decided to have their parents marriage end it was the parents!  How DARE the Step mom decide that she HATES them???  I would put the link in here, however, then this would be deleted and the point would be lost!  It's making me increasingly more angry by the second!  Talk about a selfish B****!  I have nothing nice to say about this woman whatsoever...she was even talking about leaving her husband because *SHOCK SHOCK* they fight about this!!!  If she didn't want stepkids then why the F*** did she marry him????  Ugh, I'm typing this in red, because it's the only color I can see right now!  Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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pixie3
Jun. 2, 2008 at 4:29 PM There's a reason there is always an evil stepmother in fairy tales!

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Krist...
Jun. 2, 2008 at 4:30 PM That's just fucked up(The step-mom in question).  Audrey and MAria are only half-sisters but Jason loves them both equally. There is NO reason for the sort of behavior this "mom" is displaying.

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Ohiom...
Jun. 2, 2008 at 4:31 PM Fully agree with you Kristi!!! 

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Kay300
Jun. 2, 2008 at 4:32 PM I used to be just like you..... all the way.......... I would hear these women at work talk terribly about step kids and (I just was in SHOCK)............ --  Well, now I know different..........  My step daughters nearly killed me, and I layed in bed fearing they would kill our 5 year old daughter........  --- They went to any length to try and destroy my marriage and my baby girls life.......................  I pray I never see them again, because I may try and Get My Revenge..........  I think step kids are Horrible along with their Mothers....

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PTBAAMom
Jun. 2, 2008 at 4:33 PM HOLY COW!  I have two kids, they are not my bio babies, they call me mom and I have had the prilvlage of having them night and day for 3 years now, and they are getting another brother. I can't wait to see them together and have family photos done of all MY KIDS!  She must be a total .&^'!@

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Ohiom...
Jun. 2, 2008 at 4:34 PM

Okay with that you have every right to be the way this woman is...but if you read the post, you'll find that the only things these kids have done wrong is be at the house on the weekends!  They've done NOTHING!  They've called their daddy and told him that they're excited to be getting a new brother and she gets mad because he's not their BROTHER he's only half...If you need the link feel free to ask, but in the case of this woman, there's nothing that even begins to make this feel the same as what you went through!

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South...
Jun. 2, 2008 at 4:36 PM I don't think she has any children of her own (besides being preg right now), it seems that she doesn't yet know a "mother's love".  Right now she's consumed with herself and this new baby on the way, she doesn't want anyone to have any part of her pregnancy nor when the baby comes. I think she is having an issue with the ex wife so therefore she is taking all her anger out on the kids. The hubby also said that if she left he didn't want anything to do with the new baby......I think there's more issues than what we are able to read, there has to be. It's just sad.

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Reba06
Jun. 2, 2008 at 4:37 PM

Can you tell me where her post is? I have some good info that she possibly could read about her stepkids. It could help her see things in a whole new light. let me know

Reba

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taraof2
Jun. 2, 2008 at 4:45 PM

No joke how can people be so mean to kids they didn't ask for any of it.  Mean lady!! She will get hers one day (your reap what you sow)

 

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Joyce...
Jun. 2, 2008 at 4:58 PM No, I haven't seen the post you're talking about but I can agree.  My fiance has a son from previous relationship, I have 2 sons from previous marriage, & we now have a son together.  I've only met his son twice because he lives out of state.  My ex-husband took on a girlfriend who already had 3 kids (2 boys & a girl) who only visit every other weekend but my 2 oldest live there & visit me every other weekend.  All of that can get confusing!!!  My point here is that anyone who goes into a relationship should know whether or not the other person has kids.  Both of my oldest boys had issues with their dad's girlfriend's kids & cried to me about not wanting them around.  This happened while I was STILL going through the divorce.... but I pushed my feelings aside, sat them down & explained to them that as long as he was in a relationship with her, they had to start accepting them as steps & somehow find a way to get along.  Eventually they adjusted.  I've tried to teach them (even by example) of how to be the bigger person instead of being mean.  My fiance has always treated them as his own but honestly, if he hadn't been that way, we wouldn't have dated long at all!

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