As I'm sitting here browsing through CafeMom, I can hear my neighbors screaming and yelling at each other. Well let me tell ya, this is an everyday thing! ALL DAY, EVERYDAY! It's like non-stop! She's yelling at him for being lazy and not doing nothing all day, and he's yelling back, "ya ya ya"! I mean really! There's been a few days already where the cops come and just take statements, but it's not like they do anything! Believe me I tried to just ignore them, but we're in a neighborhood where the houses are close together so It's hard to just ignore! They are right there, a couple feet away from my bedroom! How do you ignore that?

 

You know what goes through my head when I hear them? Why the hell are they even married? If people (like my neighbors) are miserable in their marriage, why do they stay together? They just become more unhappy everyday that passes. The people out there that stay married because they think it's best for the children, it's not! I was one of those that prayed every night that my parents would just divorce already. I was miserable, I hated the yelling, then I hated the silence. The more they hated each other, the less I saw them. It got to the point where I hated my parents for putting me through this that I ran away. Not just to a friends house on the next block. I literally ran away to Texas. Those that stay because it's against their religous belief, well I have nothing against your belief, but I do believe that God wants us all to be happy, and not miserable. Anyway, I just wanted to get that out of my head.

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Mommy...
Jun. 2, 2008 at 6:06 PM

Here's to happiness-choose it over fighting all the time, people!!!

 I hope you get some peace around your house and a break from their crazy yelling. Does NOT sound fun.

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tabbys4
Jun. 2, 2008 at 6:07 PM u gotta love neighbores i lived in an aprment complex a few years ago and my lesbian neighbore fought 24/7 screaming and yelling in the hallway always screaming no dont go i love u it was madning i didnt care if they were lesbians but if your yelling at each other like that and accusing one and other why stay together?? what was funny was one was a kindergraden teacher and she hated kids and here i am with 4 kids. but the screaming and banging got to much and we moved into a farm house and its now quiet. wonder if there still together?

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pixie...
Jun. 2, 2008 at 6:07 PM I know how you feel. I'm in an apartment complex and the people upstairs are always yelling profanities. I've complained so many times to the front office but there's really nothing anyone can do about it. I have no idea why people that miserable stay married, but I think a big reason might be about money. Divorces and separate residences are expensive. It's really sad for the children involved.

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RoseGard
Jun. 5, 2008 at 4:15 PM I have no clue why people say together. I do not think God is going to do anything about people getting a divorce. That is just ridiculous.(IMO).  You know what, I dont think I should say any more.

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