You know I am new here but I thought maybe this could be somewhere where people may understand how I feel about this.. Well my baby's dad is over sea's so it isn't like he gets to talk to this baby while it is inside of me and I think that is what I am hating the most right now.. I mean I don't know he seems like that kind of guy who would like to talk to his baby and feel it move and everything else that comes along with the pregnancy even the B**** mode.. But he doesn't get to be here and that hurts and the other thing that is bothering me is the first time he will get to see his baby it will be 2 months old and then he leaves again and wont be back tell his baby is 6 months old so he is going to be missing out on so much.. I just hate the fact that he will be missing so much of what is going on with this baby for so long...and I am just missing him and wishing he could have all the joys of it to.. Are any of you in the same situation and if so how do you deal with it?

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Jun. 2, 2008 at 10:23 PM I'm  not in your situation, but I'm sorry about how you feel... I couldn't imagine going through what you are... So all I can say is be strong... he's doing a great thing in fighting for our country and I am thankful for what he does.

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Jun. 6, 2008 at 4:11 AM But a video camera and send videos... Either an actual tape/dvd or online. When I was little my dad would do that, make a tape reading us a book or the sort and send it home to us. It'll be a nice way for him to see progression in you,(the birth if u choose to tape it) and the baby when its born. Also take monthly belly pics so ur honey can watch ur baby bump grow. I hope things get better!

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