Well i let him go... vent!

  • June 3, 2008 at 2:01 AM by Pregomommy255
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Well i had a post up about my mother inlaw who doesnt follow my sons schedule and over feeds him until he vomits... she wanted him for the weekend and I didnt feel comfortable with that because of what happens when we are there with her...  Well my fiance kyle said that we should try it for one night!  My son is only 2 1/2 months old well 3 now but has never been away from me...  he cries even if my fiance has him while i run errands... anywho my fiance and i decided to write down his schedule and the rules and guidelines we wanted her to follow... also how to mix his formula because he has it a special way because he has gerd!  We wrote everything down... the freaking woman over fed him and i sent a brand new can of formula that usually lasts about 3 days and it was gone in one night by her... ugh  then every time i would call he would be screaming in the back ground.. then one time i called and she was outside doing yard work and he was inside with her 6 year old! ugh  not only that but our son has to wear pamper brand diapers and we have told her this a thousand and one times and so what does she do she doesnt use the diapers i provide she goes and buys parent choice walmart brand so when i get him back he has broken out in a rash from the waist down...  I dont know what to do about this woman she is driving me insane...  then when i pick him up her son who is 11 says that she smoked around him and never washed her hands before touching him!  What can I do?   I am so mad... My fiance is speechless and scared of his own mother!

Comments:

terry77
i'd say limit her contact with him so it's only when you are around. she needs to understand and respect your wishes. good luck!

terry77 Jun. 3, 2008 at 2:08 AM

megs2...
Oh poor Carson. Yeah I hope your fiance at least sees now that she is not a good caretaker and hopefully he wont push you to let her take him again. Hope he feels better son.

megs2boys Jun. 3, 2008 at 8:03 AM

zhara...

Hopefully you wont let him stay there without you anymore i have the mil from hell too when my daughter started to walk at 8.5 months she started holding her constantly so she wouldnt learn it took me another 3.5 months just to get her to walk because of it. now i wont let zhara go over there unless her dad is there and then its never ever over night

zharas_mommy Jun. 4, 2008 at 7:37 PM

mom2T...

oh hunny wat a horrible person to do those thigns to ur baby esp. the smoking thats one of the reasons y we wont let my mil watch our son cuz she doesnt even leave the room anymore and we are totalyl against smoking!!! wow i'm prayign for you!!!

and ur baby is a wonderful and beautiful blessing never let ur parents tell u otherwise!!

mom2Tristen06 Jun. 17, 2008 at 12:01 AM

Carle...

OH MY GOSH I WOULD BE SO PISSED!!!!

 I'd say she lost her privileges with YOUR baby.  She needs to KNOW she screwed up.  Tell your fiance he needs to get the you know what's to confront her and maybe if he can't, YOU SHOULD!  

 SMOKING around your child???  NO WAY!!

 You are TOTALLY within your rights as a mom to be ANGRY.

CarleneandChris Jul. 13, 2008 at 6:43 AM

Carle...
Whoops - I meant to say husband!  Congratulations!  :O)

CarleneandChris Jul. 13, 2008 at 6:45 AM

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