Its been ol' a month and still counting since my daughters father has made any effort to contact his daughter.  Mind you he didn't send her anything for Christmas which he said he would and nothing for her birthday in which he said he was coming to see her. I'm glad she's at an age that she does not hear all the promises that he makes because it pissed me off!  The same wack as shit he used to do to me and promise me things and I NEVER got !  I hate for her to have her heart broken on a promise. To me promises mean a lot, it is a big deal. If your not going to go through with it don't make it.

So its been a lil while and i receive a money order in the mail. WOW! I see he does know he has a daughter that does need things!  I'm not rich neither is my Husband and I shouldn't have to beg him to send money because he should know that she needs things that HE should be getting her if he is a real man and man up to the resonsibility he created.  He sent 60.00 dollars, ummmm i assume you could send at the least a hundred i can't buy a whole lot with that, but i guess i should be happy he sent anything.

I'm not bitter I'm just tired of the bullshit ass ways he thinks he's making a diffrence for his daughter. He doesn't even call her at least once a month to talk to her. I'm sure she will soon find out that her father is not the kind of man she can depend on.

 

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memem...
Jun. 3, 2008 at 6:26 AM WELL I CERTAINLY WOULD NOT BE HAPPY WITH THAT SHIT REALLY NOW THE TIME YOU GO TAKE THE DAMN MONEY ORDER TO THE BANK THERE IS YOUR FUCKING GAS MONEY.THESE MEN (IF WE CAN CALL THEM THAT) KILL ME SEND OR GIVE YOU A FEW PENNIES AND THEY SWEAR THEY DONE SOME SHIT. WORRIED ABOUT THEY NOT TRYING TO PAY LIGHTS, GAS, AND OR BUY FOOD TO FED ANOTHER MAN WELL GUESS WHAT N----. YOUR CHID BENEFITS FROM ALL THAT STOP COCERNING YOUR SELF HOW THE MONEY WILL BE SPENT AND DO WHAT YOU ARE SUPPOSE TO DO. WHY WE GOT TO GO TO THE MAN AND MAKE YOU? IT IS NOT ABOUT US IT'S ABOUT THE CHOLD. YOU KNOW IT'S FUNNY WE AS WOMEN ARE ALWAYS LEFT TO PICK UP THE PIECES FOR A MAN TRY TO RAISE OUR SONS (HOW DO WE TEACH THEM TO BE MEN)? TEACH OUR DAUGHTERS WHAT A GOOD MAN LOOKS LIKE BUT THE MAN THAT IS SUPPOSE TO HELP WON'T DO SHIT BUT TALK SHIT. I REALLY DON'T GET THAT AND THEY WONDER WHY THE GIRLS GROUP UP AND DATE A NO GOOD 4 NOTHING MAN WELL UMMM YOU DUMB ASS OR THERE SONS ALL FUCKED UP WELL TAKE ALOOK IN THE MIRROR.  AND I BET YOU $5 DOLLARS TO A BUCKET OF SHIT HE BRAGGED ALL OVER TOWN ABOUT WHAT HE WAS SUPPOSE TO DO IN THE FIRST DAMN PLCE AND YOU WON'T SEE HIM OR THAT FOR AGREAT WHILE. I HATE THAT THESE KIDS NEED BOTH THERE PARENTS WHY DON'T THEY GET THAT? I KNOW I COULD NOT GO A FULL SHIFT(8) HOURS WITH OUT SEEING AO WANTING TO TALK TO MY BABY I FIND MYSELF AT WORK FLI[PPING MY PHONE UP JUST TO SEE HER FACE AND HOW THAT ASSHOLE CAN GO THAT LONG WITHOUT SEEING THERE OWN FLESH AND BLOOD. FOR ME IT WOULD NOT BE ABOUT THE MONEY AND I'M SURE MOST MOTHERS FEEL THAT WAY BECAUSE I TO AM NOT RICH AT ALL JUST COME SEE OUR CHILD KEEP YOUR PROMISES,  HOW CAN YOU GO TO BED AT NIGHT NOT KNOWING HOW YOUR CHILD IS, ARE THEY BEING HARMED/ MIS-TREATED BY NEW MAN, TOUCHED, IS THE MOTHER ON DRUGS , HOW ARE THE LIVING CONDTIONS, DO MY CHILD CRY AT NIGHT FOR ME. I AM VERY ANGRY AND FEEL YOU NOT BECAUSE I AM GOING THROUGH SHIT BUT I KNOW TO MANY FAMILY, ADN FRIENDS THAT ARE. AND IT JUST MAKES ME MAD. i WOULD NOT WANTING TO HURT MY CHILD BUT LET HER SEE WHAT KIND OF LIAR HE IS BECAUSE SOON SHE WILL UNDERSTAND AND YOU WANT HER TO KNOW IT'S NOT YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND IT'S HIS ASS. AND SOMETIMES AS FUCKED UP ASS IT IS SOMETIMES THEY NEED TO STAY THE HELL AWAY YOUR HUSBAND IS THERE HE IS HER FATHER AND ALL THE FATHER SHE NEEDS. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS AND DON'T WORRY HIS DAY IS COMING HE WILL WEAP WHAT HE SOE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Dani32
Jun. 3, 2008 at 6:47 AM

I know how you feel.  My boys are older and understand the lies that their sperm donors tell them.  They are 12 n 8.  There was a time they went through "why does my dad hate me so much?  he always lies to me."   It tears your heart out.  I don't say anything neg about them in front of my boys, but I could.  I know the games they play and the broken promises.  They admit their dads lie to them but they still make an attempt for a relationship. I don't understand.  They never give up hope where as I did a long time ago.  They consider my DH as their dad but they still want some sort of relationship with the dead beats. Go figure.

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