Well,I had more problems with Cody again.I had to call the law AGAIN on this kid.It all started after school.It was a half a day for all the kids.Tom is the last day of school.Anyhow,the younger kids got home first,about an hour or so COdy got home.Before Cody got home Dylan found a half of a cig that was hidden from Cody.Dylan brought it to me and I told him just to through it out.When Cody came home already smoking,he freaked out over this stupid half of a cigarette.He started to hit Dylan.Of course ,I step in and Cody rebelled against me.F this..F that well,,,,I slapped him in the mouth.Aint no KID gonna talk to me like that.So,I told Cody if he cant listen and cant act right theres the door.I had Dylan run up and get the cop that lives near us,.He came over and pulled Cody out side.Not (physically pulled) You know just to talk to him about whats going on.Cody already has a back ground so,I told the cops (3) of them that he needs to be taken away.The Judge told me that if Cody does ANYTHING that Im suppose to call the law for them to pick him up.So thats what I did.Cody ended up running from the cops.And they STILL brought him home.UGH!! Are you for real????The law is sooooooo messed up.The one cop kept saying he is my son,MY responsibility etc...WELLL<<<<

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Jun. 3, 2008 at 8:49 AM Hun I am telling you I am walking where you are right now. We had a HUGE blow up Sunday where  mine was leaving, we hated him, the whole 9 yards, shoved me, TRIED to get past his dad (didn't get far there. He fell back on his bed and I literally began praying over him and rebuking the spirit of anger. He bgan crying saying that is not gonna work, within 5 minutes he was calmer and talking.  A friend of his came up missing friday and they still have not found him, he had worked all weekend,plus had spent time with his bio dad, which seems to always make it worse on him... I will absolutely keep you all in prayer...

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Jun. 3, 2008 at 9:45 AM God bless you and your family.  I will keep you all in my prayers.

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Jun. 3, 2008 at 10:19 AM

Ok, Ive worked with abused women and kids in my career path....your son needs some help, and not legal help. YOu need to call mental health and get him in for counseling ASAP! There's something that has happened in the past, or is happening now that is driving him to resent you. It's sounding like he's mad that you cant see why he's hurting, and when he hurts, takes it out on you or his siblings. No, i'm not saying he was molested or anything like that....could be he's been picked on in school badly....whatever it is, HE NEEDS COUNSELING. If you need to, you can contact his school counselor, they are still working, and she can recommend someone in the school system to talk to him. Please get him counseling.

Maybe i'm talking out of my A**, I dont know if you've tried that route....but he's showing classic signs that can be handled through counseling. Also, because I know you're a Christian, there are some Christian summer camps for boys where they provide counseling and teach the boys to control their anger reactions...maybe you'd prefer that route. Of course we'll be praying for you.....good luck.

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