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Question: DO YOU THINK I SHOULD GET THE PATERNITY TEST JUST TO PROVE HIM WRONG SO HOPEFULLY HE'LL HELP ME WITH HER FINALLY????

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YES, MAYBE HE'LL HELP YOU WITH HER IF HE KNOWS SHES HIS..

NO, ITS A WASTE OF MONEY IF YOU ALREADY KNOW!!

NO JUST SPEND IT ON YOUR DAUGHTER


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HEY EVERYBODY SO I TOLD YOU A LITTLE BOUT MY STORY IN THE FIRST JOURNAL BUT SORRY TO TELL YOU I DONT FEEL ANY BETTER IVE TRIED TO EXPRESS MY FEELINGS TO HIM AND I EVEN MADE HIM READ ALL OF YALLS COMMENTS. IT DIDNT WORK. HE STILL DOSENT CARE. EVERY TIME I CRY OR IM SAD ITS LIKE IM NOT EVEN THERE...HE DOSENT HOLD ME COMFORT ME KISS ME OR ANYTHING WHILE IM CRYING. I JUST FEEL SO LONELY AND I CANT HELP IT I FEEL LIKE IVE TRIED EVERYTHING TO LET HIM KNOW HES LOSING ME SLOWLY BUT ITS LIKE HE DOSENT CARE. I JUST LOVE HIM SO MUCH BUT I ALREADY KNOW THAT IM HANGING ON TO WHAT I WANT HIM TO BE OR BETTER YET WHO HE USED TO BE AN I KNOW THAT I JUST THINK IF HE LOVES ME ENOUGH HE'LL CHANGE AND HE HASNT. I TELL HIM IM LEAVING HIM WHEN IM REALLY UPSEYT AND THE ONLY THING HE SAYS IS "THERES THE DOOR". YEAH>>>BUT HE "LOVES ME" RIGHT? I DONT KNOW I KNOW I DESRVE BETTER ITS LIKE MY HEAD IS TELLING ME TO GO BUT MY FEET ARENT MOVING. ANY ADVICE? AND THE WHOLE HIM NOT HELPING ME WITH OUR BABY THING I THINK ITS BECAUSE HE SAYS "HES NOT SURE IF ITS HIS OR NOT" BUT COME ON I HAVENT CHEATED HE HAS! AND HERES THE DEAL WE GOT OUR INCOME TAX CHECK AND I GOT A THOUSAND AND I HAVE TO USE THAT TO BUT ENZI'S(BABY) STUFF AND THE STUFFI WANT NOW HE GOT TWO THOUSAND(WHY??? I DONT KNOW HE SAYS HE WORKS AND I DONT DO ANYTHING(I MEAN HELLO!?! I TOOK CARE OF HER ALL DAY EVERYDAY BY MYSELF!!!!!) BUT ANYWAYS BACK TO SUBJECT DO YOU THINK I SHOULD WASTE $500 FOR A DAMN PATERNITY TEST TO PROVE TO HIM SOMETHING I ALREADY KNOW???? WHEN I COULD USE IT TO BUT ENZI SOME MORE STUFF?

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codi_...
Jun. 3, 2008 at 10:22 AM

Yes get a paternity test, then leave his sorry behind!

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Jamie...
Jun. 3, 2008 at 3:15 PM I remember seeing a gal on tv along time ago and she said "when you see "crazy" walking down the street do you stay on your side?" Now I hate to give advice Sweetie but, when is enough gonna be enough? You can only change yourself...nobody else. Do what you need to do and get away from this guy...what good is he doing you? Would he give you anymore (in any way!) if you get the paternity test? Chances are no...in the end it's your decision. Love ya!

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redmo...
Jun. 4, 2008 at 3:41 PM i get one just to prove to him that u werent screwing around and to let him know that the baby is his (i had simallar situtaion i have rd hair and dad said if my daughter came out with red hair it wasnt his) lol dosent he know that we both had red headed people in both families my kids didnt get red hair and he was shocked  

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