It always amazes me how much other women care about what other moms do in their personal lives on here.....WHY??  Why do we care to argue that a mom smokes pot or that a mom BF insteads of BF or why do we care so much if a woman gets an abortion or not???  If it isn't our life nor our children involved, why do we care so much?  Why do we have to state what we think or bash other moms for this?  If they are doing anything we wouldn't do, what makes you think they are going to listen to a complete stranger to not do it?  Why do we waste our time replying to such posts?  I think if we just ignored these types of posts, just maybe people would stop posting about them because they wouldn't be gettting any replies; therefore there wouldn't be any drama and they might just stop and see it as a waste of time to post.  Instead we get into a power struggle and people's feelings get hurt and tempers start flying....WHY??? 

Please dont give me the line of this is what CM is all about because last time I checked CM wasnt about drama or trying to start drama or bringing down other moms.  I think if we all worried about lives and our children CM and the world would be better!  It is one thing to look for advice on here, but to put a post up where we all know the outcome of it because we all know what topics cause issues on here is stupid in my opinion!  But even so, why do we care about what other moms do in their PERSONAL lives and homes?  I know I don't care what any of you moms do as long as it doesnt effect my life or my children's lives, I could careless!! 

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mom2a...
Jun. 3, 2008 at 10:38 AM Bravo!!!  I couldn't agree more!

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baile...
Jun. 3, 2008 at 10:48 AM I guess because we are women and some think since we are women we need and want drama

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Proud...
Jun. 3, 2008 at 10:55 AM But WHY do some women need and want drama???  Isn't this world hard enough to live in without that garbage???

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mimit...
Jun. 3, 2008 at 10:54 PM I don't understand it either. I'm here to befriend people & share a laugh or two.  I will support someone having a hard time.  I don't need any drama.

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babyb...
Jun. 3, 2008 at 10:58 PM I also don't understand. I'd rather congratulate a momma on a new baby than respond to someone who is bitching about what everyone should or shouldn't be doing and I only give advice if I feel that it is really needed.

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resam...
Jun. 4, 2008 at 3:32 PM I DROPPED MOST OF THE DRAMA GROUPS....i MAY LOOK AT SOME OF THE NEW ONES, JUST TO LEND SUPPORT TO SOMEONE WHO ACTUALLY SEEMS TO JUST NEED A PAT ON THE BACK. GOT ENOUGH PROBLEMS IN MY OWN LIFE THAN FIGHTING WITH PEAOPLE OVER STUPID CRAP!

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