i feel lost. i just had my 3rd child and i really don't want to go back to work in a couple weeks,we need the money because all my bills are backed up my mortgage is not getting paid i try to find web site that are work at home but it seems to be fake and i really don't want to give any one money to get it started i don't trust any thing like that . i want to enjoy my life, i am a great mother and wife but i know as soon as i go back to that hell hole i call my job i am gonna be unhappy. sometimes i feel its not worth it anymore . does any one have any advise before i drive myself crazy? thanks

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Jun. 3, 2008 at 11:05 AM I had to go back to work when my ds was 8 weeks old.  I hated putting him in day care.  I hated being at work.  I would call day care all the time to see what he was doing (sleeping, of course...he was 8 weeks old!!!) and I would generally mope around the office.  Luckily, I had friends to talked me into going out to lunch with them and spending some time talking.  My ds is now 2, and I'm still at work.  I wish, wish, wish I could be home with him, but financially and realistically, it is not possible.  I miss my baby so much somedays that I just want to fake being sick so I can go see him, but I can't.  For the most part it's fine.  I just do my work and bide my time until I can get home and see my baby. 

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Jun. 11, 2008 at 5:03 PM dont be sad! its a good thing you will have a little break from your kids and you will be back in the world again! dont go crazy!! i love ya!

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