just wondering how many of you ladies have or have had someone your are really close to you telling you that your and the person your with won't make it becuase of some odd reason. and constantly tell you that you and that person are worth nothing? anyone? just wondering becuase i have. and the first song on my profile explains just about everything i have been going through. and am going through. and it's one year later and it's still non stop he's gonna break up with you. and all he wants is sex when in the first place we only really see each other every other weekend! so  it's not a sex thing with mike and i!it just bugs me when the people closest to you can't be happy you found that one person who knows more about you then yourself! and that you are happy and love?! is that so hard to ask. just be happy for me!? and he really does know more about me then i know about myself! weird. but it works the other way around too! i don't know just weird right now! does anyone else have this or has had this?

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Luie2
Jun. 3, 2008 at 11:46 AM People are so mean.misery loves company.When I was single I had a really good friend and everything change when I started seeing my now husband.She isnt really my friend anymore!Be sides its none of their fucking business!Sex or not cant they be happy for you!

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Savan...
Jun. 3, 2008 at 1:55 PM Well I am happy for you! and don't listen to anyone else!

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caley...
Jun. 3, 2008 at 2:59 PM

I agree with the first poster, misery loves company. Plain and simple. Im sorry that they are not happy for you, they need to get over it! I know it may be hard, but just tell them again that they need to accept it, be happy for you, and let it go. After that, just ignore them, or tell them that you dont want to hear it. Im glad you're happy with him, and IM happy for you! =D

 

 

 

 

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Delsh...
Jun. 3, 2008 at 8:50 PM F people and their negative comments. I pushed all negativity out of my life a couple years ago and am a much happier person now - anyone who brings you down is not your friend. say goodbye to them and move forward, surround yourself with people who will bring you up, not down. thts no way to live. good luck.

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Dawni
Jun. 23, 2008 at 10:08 PM I totally have that. One of my best friends is positive that Cliff and I aren't going to make it. She told me that she knows FOR SURE we will end up getting divorced no matter what. It bugs the shit out of me!

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AYAT1
Jun. 26, 2008 at 3:52 PM It's simple-people like that are not your friends. Sometimes we have to let some relationships go to start others.

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