Okay so after we had our daughter Izabella we decided we were done having kids. I am happy with that decision because we have three. Last night after the kids went to bed we sat up talking. He had been saying all week that we should not get rid of our 7 yr olds bike because Theron mike need it(Theron is the name he picked out if we had a boy). I said we aren't going to have another baby he looks at me and says we might. So last night he tells me I should get my IUD taken so we could start trying. We are in the process of getting a place and moving out. I don't know what I would say to his dad and step-mom if we didn't get pregnant again soon. He kept telling me names he would like and went on about it for an hour. I wouldn't mind having more kids but just not at this moment. I am trying to figure out why he keeps bringing it up when he was the one who said no more kids in the first place. He is only 27 he cant of hit his mid-life crisis yet. Maybe he just really wants a boy that is his biologically. My 7yr old is from my first marriage. I don't know what to think. Any Ideas?

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Jun. 3, 2008 at 1:03 PM He could just be mourning.  I had a hard time not having another baby.  I was used to the pattern.  Get preg. have the baby bring it home....get preg, have the baby...and on.  C

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