My 4 year old son is in a psych hospital. I feel like crap for putting him there but for the safety of my other children I had no choice. I hope things get better for him soon. My father in law  is dying. I have no car so I can not see either one. Every time I turn around there is something new. But as we all know that is the way life truly is. I can not seem to catch any breaks at all. I know everyone is in the same boat, The gas prices, food, cost of living keeps going up but no ones paycheck is going up. I think we all need to pray and hope things start to become more affordable.

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Jane8
Jun. 3, 2008 at 1:34 PM Wow. Sorry to hear about all of your troubles. It sounds like your plate is full. I hope things get better for you soon!!

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Shaja
Jun. 3, 2008 at 1:37 PM Wow.  I will keep you and your family in my prayers.  I hope your load lightens up soon.  Have faith that things will get better and they will.

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memem...
Jun. 3, 2008 at 2:17 PM

HI VERY SORRY YOU HAD TO PUT YOUR 4YR OLD IN A HOSPITAL. WAS THAT REAALY THE ONLY WAY? WHY IF YOU DON'T MIND ME ASKING? YOU SHOULD ALSO MONITOR WHAT KINDS OF MEDS AND THE SIDE EFFECTS THAT IT WILL CAUSE. CAN HE COME HOME ONE DAY AND THE MEDS CONTROL HIS BEHAVIOR? I HOPE THOES ARE SOME QUESTIONS YOU ASKED AND GOT THE ANSWER TO. IF HE CAN  NOT COME RIGHT AWAY PUT IT IN  GOD'S HANDS YOU WANT HIM SAFE AND OTHERS AROUND, IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT SOME THINGS ARE JUST OUT OF OUR CONTROL EVEN WHEN WE WANT THE BEST FOR OUR KIDS WE HAVE TO SOME TIMES DO THE UN-THINKABLE LET GO LET GOD AND ALLOW THE PROPER HELP TO BE GIVEN. NOW AS FAR AS NOT HAVING AWAY TO YOUR SON AND FATHER IN-LAW. WHERE THE HELL IS YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS AT A TIME LIKE THIS IF IT WAS NEVER A TIME BEFORE NOW IS THE TIME TO BE THERE FOR YOU. BUT IF YOU HAVE KNOW ONE YOU SHOULD BE ON THE BUS. I'M SURE SOMEONE WILL BE KIND AND ATLEAST DROP YOU OFF MAKE SOME SORT OF ARRANGEMENTS TO GET TO YOUR CHILD. WHERE IS HIS FATHER/ WHY WON'T HE TAKE YOU DON'T HE HAVE FAMILY OR FRIENDS YOU CAN COUNT ON/ YOU WORRIED ABOUT GETTING TO SOMEONE WHO IS DYING AND LIVED THERE LIVE AND YOUR SON IS SOME WHERE IN A DAMN HOSPITAL LOOKING FOR HIS MOMMIE GET YOUR PRIORITYS STRAIGHT WHO IS MORE IMPORANT. IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE CLOSE WITH FATHER IN-LAW WELL WHERE IS HIS PEOPLE THEY SHOULS WANT YOU TO GO SEE ABOUT YOUR CHILD THERE FAMILY. I AM NOT BEING A BITCH BUT LET'S FACE IT YOU NEED TO GO SEE ABOUT YOUR CHILD HE IS YOUR RESPONSIBILTY NOT YOUR FATHER IN-LAW AND I'M SURE HE WOULD WANT YOU TO GO SEE ABOUT HIS GRANDSON. NOW I'M NOT SAYING DON'T GO SEE ABOUT HIM BUT YOUR FIRST AND ONLY PRIORTY SHOULD BE YOUR SON. HE NEEDS YOU YOU CAN'T HELP YOUR FATHER IN-LAW YOU WILL JUST BE THERE TO WATCH HIM DIE AND WHY WOULD YOU WANT THAT?REMEMBER HIM HOW HE WAS NOT THE SICK HIM GET ON A BUS HITCH HIKE DO SOMETHING BUT GO SEE ABOUT YOUR CHILD HE NEEDS YOU.  KEEP IN MIND WHEN YOU GET ON CAFE MOM AND ASK OPION THIS IS WHAT YOU GET I REALLY AM NOT TRYING TO BE CRULEL AND HARSH I'M JUST GIVING MY THOUGHTS GOOD LUCK TO YOU AND YOUR FAMIL. I WILL KEEP YOU IN MY PRAYERS

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