I just found out today that their is someone making fun of my daughter who isn't even born yet. This person is telling people that she is going to be ugly and that she is going to have big ears. But her kids aren't that cute to begin with, but you don't see me making fun of her kids. That is so wrong of a person to do. How can you make fun of a baby that isn't even born? This really upsets me. I also found out that she is mad that people told her that I am having a girl. Well you shouldn't ask if you don't want to know. I am just sick of this person talking shit about me and my family behind our backs. She said that she grew up but I guess she is just a liar too. If she grew up then she wouldn't be making fun of an unborn child. My friend Jenni is right about her being a backstabber. What would you ladies do if someone was making fun of your unborn baby?

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navyjen
Jun. 3, 2008 at 3:20 PM Well one I would be pissed and 2 I would probably ignore them.  What kind of idiot pokes fun at a kid who isnt born yet or a baby even for that matter.  Here is your answer one with no life no morals and no standards.  Your better than that.  Just ifnore them if you can.     No need to get upset when your pregnant.  Hang in there sweetie.

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Healt...
Jun. 3, 2008 at 3:21 PM Could it that this person is jealous possibly?I would never make fun of a child,much less a unborn child.I would just ignore it as best as you can and dont worry about it.How far along are you?Is this person a neighbor or someone you used to be friendly with?If so I would sever all contact until she truly does grow up.

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mom2a...
Jun. 3, 2008 at 3:22 PM Ignore them.  They wouldn't be worth my time.  I know my child is beautiful, and I knew it before he was born.  That's all I need to know.  Don't let this immature person bother you, sweetie.  She just isn't worth it.

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ihave...
Jun. 3, 2008 at 3:22 PM Drop them ,they are not your friend if they do this!!!!!!!

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stare...
Jun. 3, 2008 at 3:27 PM What a jerk! Not only is this person not your friend they dont have a heart ugh keep your head up!  :)

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Rselix08
Jun. 3, 2008 at 3:28 PM

Be the bigger person . Confront her about it and see how she does underpressure. the mommy to my stepson and me dont get along. AT ALL. she has 3 boys and MAN was she jealous when she found out I was having a girl! Ask her what her problem is. Tell her you have never said anything about her kids so what gives her the right to bring up your family. If the two of you have a problem tell her she needs to talk to you face to face and not act immature and bring your family into this. Confront her in a public place. Make sure you have a friend with you to be a good mediator. Maybe sit down to lunch with the three of you and try and work your problems out. Tell her that you want to be a mature person and not play silly schoolyard games. If thats too much for her to handle  then all you can do is tell people your side when they ask about whatever rumors she spreads.Eventually eveyone will realize she has the maturity lever of a 4th grader (no offence to anyone with a 4th grade kid!)

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tinke...
Jun. 3, 2008 at 3:32 PM Thank you ladies for all your help and input.

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elena...
Jun. 3, 2008 at 3:35 PM

OBVIOUSLY this person is jealous of you, and has nothing better to do than try to make herself feel better by slamming you and your daughter.  This person only has as much power over your emotions and feelings as you let her have - she sounds extremely childish and frankly like someone who's not worth your time or consideration.  And saying all these nasty things about your unborn child to other people? - believe me, it speaks volumes more about her than it does anyone else, so I say let her get out there and continue to demonstrate to those people what a mean and spiteful jerk she really is (not to mention the fine example she's setting for her lovely children).  If you must interact with her or can't ignore her, just tell her it's too bad we can't all be as genetically gifted and well-mannered as herself and her children. 

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gusti...
Jun. 3, 2008 at 5:08 PM well i would be pissed too and congrads on the baby

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momofzoe
Jun. 4, 2008 at 3:06 PM

I would just ignore her, she is obviously jealous... Also,  what goes around comes around.  Try not to worry about it too much, you need to focus on your little girl and your sons.  If she knows you are concerened about it, she might not let up. Just ignore her!!  That @#!@...

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