Here is a link to my original post on this situation:

It's happening again.  I really don't know what to do.  I thought we discussed this and came to a conclusion that him deciding that he doesn't want another baby was more about him worrying about finances and free time and that it wasn't fair for him to make this decision for us and that he would like another child if it happened, but that he'd be happy either way.  Now, last night, out of the blue (and during my hopefully fertile time - my first cycle on clomid) he comes out with this again and acts like it's not even up for discussion!  I'm so heartbroken, hurt, angry, upset and confused.  This sucks!

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Jun. 3, 2008 at 9:23 PM I am so sorry you have to go through this, not only is it hard for you because you have to go on clomid to get pregnant and then your husband turns on you.

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Jun. 4, 2008 at 11:43 AM I am sorry to hear things are back to this point again.  Try to keep your chin up. 

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Jun. 6, 2008 at 9:54 PM I am so sorry that things are not going well for the both of you.... you and your hubby will be in my thoughts and prayers....but if he is not committed to parenting another child at this time it is best to wait and give it more time... At least he told you that he is not ready to have another child... try to keep the communication open...I did the infertility meds and it is an emotional hormonal roller coaster. I know that can be very frustrating but you need to try and keep talking and see if you both can come to an agreement   take care        HUGS

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