so been with my baby daddy for a good minute now. I left him back in december when i was 6 months to move back home to MN. He was going through some messed up things that I couldn't deal with while pregnant so I had to make the right decisions for Tabitha and I. I've decided to stick with the long distance relationship for now. He wants to move up here and I'm willing to work things out but he's on probation so we have to get it transfered first. We break up litterally every other week and get back together. I don't know what brings be back to him everytime. I trust him and I know he's not cheating on me because we talk everyday and every night. I'm not worried about that. It's just all the DRAMA that comes with a long distance relationship. When we break up I literally feel FREE. I feel like a weight has lifted and now I just want to work towards a better future. I don't know what keeps me with him, why I can't just walk away and forget about it all. I don't want to live my life with regret of loosing him. But I also don't want to live my life with someone that can hurt me again someday and break promises. I'm afraid if I do leave him for good, I just lost a great potental relationship for when we can actually LIVE together as a normal couple.

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Jun. 3, 2008 at 8:57 PM He is an adult and he just needs to grow up! He has a child now.

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Jun. 3, 2008 at 9:00 PM That must be really hard for you. I'm 3months pregnant and i live with my babies daddy. Lately we have been fighting a lot about how late he gets home from work exc. i don't know if this is normal but i'm really unhappy right now and i have been thinking about moving to colorado with my family. I think about it over and over again and i just can't seem to leave him for good. Relationships are really hard but when you love someone you try your hardest to work things out.. Really the main thing here is that you guys love each other and want to work things out to be happy cuz that's what life is all about trying to be happy. But if it's to hard and you know you have done everything in your power to work things out and still they're the same well look foward to a new future without him!!!!!

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Jun. 4, 2008 at 2:37 AM I know!! I think its really scary to let him go. He is such a big part of u. &u 2 have a child together. Maybe u should just tell him that you wanna break up until he really feels he is ready. Because right now you really should not be worrying about tryin to make it work with him as much as you and your daughter future. If hes gonna be around than good. But u still need to know that u can do it on your own. Just follow your heart I think right now u know you don't wanna be with him at the moment. you don't need that stress!! just my opinion. I am kinda feelin the same with my baby daddy!! Its so hard.

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