I am 29 weeks prego and me and my hubby have not had sex in 2 months. It makes me feel sooo unattractive and fat! My husband has always been the person to make me feel very sexy and our sex life before I got pregnant was GREAT! And I mean GREEEAAAT!!! I miss that so much...I miss him wanting to touch me and snuggle with me. He says it's hard because we can't both fit on the couch like we used to. I mean I know there is nothing going on with another female, that hasn't even crossed my mind, but I need to find some ways to turn him on and get him in the bed...lol...please help, this is really putting stress on our relationship...

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Jun. 3, 2008 at 9:20 PM

has he given you a good reason for not wanting to have sex?

I know this is personal, but you referenced the couch. . . is that where you guys usually have sex or do you mean cuddle on the couch?

My husband won't cuddle as much on the couch either (26 1/2 wks prego here!) because it is uncomfortable for him also.

What if you just "tackle" him when he gets home from work and well, um,  take his pants off and . . .

the rest is up to you! He can't say no to that! I don't think it's in their genes to say no to that! lol

I hope  that helps! 

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Jun. 3, 2008 at 9:20 PM ...I couldnt have sex for the whole pregnancy.I was high risk and had to have a cerclage and it was rough.So all in all I didnt have sex for 10 months.My daughter was born one month early and then the 6 week healing time.Just remind each other how much you love each other and make time just to spend the two of you,maybe out to dinner or to a movie.It was torture for me and my husband but there were other ways that we could be affectionate.I know what your going through,but just hang in there!

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Jun. 3, 2008 at 9:31 PM Yea we used to Cuddle on the couch every night but now it's just uncomfortable for him and it hurts my feelings. It makes me feel fat and unwanted. I have been very emotional through this pregnancy and I hate that! I know it's all for a great reason but I don't know how to deal with it!

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Jun. 5, 2008 at 5:46 PM

Tell landon to bend your ass over and get that doggie style girl!!  And then he can hold on to the big belly so sexy!!  U know me and Jesters did it like 3 days before Kamy was born!  No it wasnt as great but hey it made him feel better!  You know Landon loves you but maybe its the whole thought that his daughters in there ya know and he just doesnt want to disturb her :) HEHEHE



Oh and we're best friends so I cant talk to her like that HAHAHA



OH one more thing that big ol bellys got my lil god daughter in there 

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Jun. 28, 2008 at 2:09 AM First of all talk to him. Express how your feeling. Communication is the number one most important factor in a relationship. Second of all is it possible that maybe you guys could stimulate eachother without having intercourse. I am pregnant too and I have found that sometimes my husband enjoys the experiance more if we do something like couples masterbation or joint oral stimulation. Last of all if your looking for something new I would love to email you one of my catalogs. If you want one just shoot me an email at alithepinkdiva@hotmail.com

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Nov. 22, 2008 at 9:40 AM

am 34 years old !!! i know im old !!  i have1 son who is 18 years old. i am expecting !! triplets !! yay !! !ha !! 2 girls and 1 boy.. and when you were only trying for 1 baby that romantic night you end up with 3 !! but i am so lucky to bring 3 great people in this world !!! i love to do everything.. i am a intimate guider.. part time ! when i feel like.( that means someone who eaches u to have fun, be passonate, have great SEX. and just be a freak in bed...i have a great husband..me and him have expierienced EVERY SINGLE  position in the books !! so if u need anything or advice ask !!!it is good to expierience everything with sex like all the toys, clothes, products .. if u want to be a succesful intimate guider !!!!! if u have any questions feel free to ask.. i love to cook. and clean.... i love my usband who i am married to for 10 years who is the father of my son and the father of my babies.. well enough about me what about u??? owww yea i love to talk... and be open !!!!! and most of all have fun ! i spoil my boy !! i cant wait till my triplets get here.... they will be so spoiled... anyway if u need any intimate advice feel free to ask..


leave me some questions !!!!!!

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