I'm so fed up with this crap my hubby is accusing me of.  Has this happened to anyone out there?  My hubby has my cell phone has for a few weeks now, he lost his and is trying to get another one.  we just got out phone turned back on.  He says there was this guy that keeps calling my cell and hangs up when he tries to call him back.  Said the guy asked for me by name?  I don't know any guys here I dont talk to any.  I dont' know what to do?  I don't want him to think I'm talking to other guys or have guy friends.  I know that's what he thinks.  But he has a lot I mean a lot of girlfriends from his old high school that he talks to on myspace and new women ask for his friend invite on myspace all the time.  He even has his old ex fiance on there.  I need to ask you women out there does your man married say at the end of a letter to another friend hugs and many kisses?  I don't think so.  I'm so upset dont' know what to do.  I tried to say that I don't know him and that I don't talk to any other guys.  I don't even look at guys at all.  never I'm married you just don't do that.  He just doesn't trust me I guess?  well any help or words of wisdom would be great.  thanks in advance


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Mar. 27, 2007 at 5:10 PM My own motto has been, if he acts like he doesn't trust you, he himself has something to hide.  But that's just my opinion.

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Mar. 27, 2007 at 5:40 PM

I agree with BandMom. My ex used to accuse me of cheating all the time and right around the time of my daughter's first birthday, i found out that HE had been cheating on ME for like 8 months. It was sad but I've got a better life now with a man who trusts me and I trust in return. There is no relationship without trust.

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Mar. 28, 2007 at 10:45 AM Men just have insecurities even without reason. My bf is the same way....He has never trusted me having guy friends but yet he tried to pull some shit were he was talking to some "old" friend he bumped into on the phone...I went crazy on him cuz if I did that he would flip out...It is just a respect thing that he should not be talking to anyone who you don't want him too...You should be the only woman in his life...If you are telling him the truth about that guy calling and he don't want  to hear it then it is his problem...Tell him to check the phone bill it has the numbers you call and have called you...That is what I did when I was accused of talking to guys...It is so unfortunate how they want double standards in the relationship!!!Men suck!WinkDon't think he is cheating on you though he could just be super jealous of nothing.....The best thing to do is really tell him how you feel!!!Even if it leads to more arguing. men are not complex creatures they need to have everything explained to them bit by bit

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Sep. 12, 2009 at 9:45 AM

i also hv a share of untrsuting husband..presently m undr this kind of situation nd it's so stressful, mind u moms..am on the brink of ending up my relationship w/him..too much of false accusations nd malicious mind..he's been cheated w/his ex wife before but why should i suffer of his ex wife's nd girls mistakes?he never trusted me all this yrs of our relationships..he's always suspicious of my activities...So many times i assured him of my love nd loyalty w/him but still it doesn't suffice..i did everything i can to relieve him w/his past issues but he still can't..what can i do more?

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