i have a problem and i need all the advice i can get. my kids grandparents never want to keep them or spend any time with them. they all live very close to us, but never come by and see the kids. both our kids (one is 4 and one is 2) are very well behaved. don't get me wrong, they do have their moments. but i still don't get why they won't spend time with them. we only ask them to babysit like once a month or sometimes less often, and they usually say no. and on the rare occasions that they do keep them they fuss the whole time about how tired they are or some crap. i don't know, am i wrong for being so upset or what. i just get mad when everytime that i go somewhere with my kids i see alot of kids with their grandparents and mine never get that. i had a great relationship with my gparents and always felt like they wanted me around, why can't my kids have these great memories too?????