Last night, I miscarried.

I left last Wednesday to Oceanside. My husband's cousin and husband and their 16 month old daughter were staying in their timeshare in Oceanside and invited Avonlea and i to come stay the week. They really helped me out so that I could relax. Laying by the beach helped me to not think about the inevitable. My mother in law lives in Oceanside as well so yesterday, my husband drove down and we went to his mother's house. I passed the baby there.

I know some of you have had this experience and some have not. This is so painful and i feel for you women for your courage. I know that some of you have had more than one miscarrige. The physical pain is bearable. It is the emotional pain that is hard.

I have a beautiful healthy daughter to take care of though so I must, of course....be strong. After this experience, I look at her and see even more than i already had, how much every baby is a miracle.

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Momof...
Jun. 9, 2008 at 1:02 PM I am so sorry for you! Stay strong.

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USMCW...
Jun. 9, 2008 at 1:05 PM

I'm So sorry for your loss.  If you need to talk sometime send me an e mail.....I  had a Miscarraige  4 yrs ago  it was very hard for me  I know what you are going thru

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Haley...
Jun. 9, 2008 at 1:24 PM My heart goes out to you. Im sure it is very emotional for you. Relax and take care of you!

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my5
Jun. 9, 2008 at 1:51 PM I am so sorry! ((HUGS))

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miche...
Jun. 9, 2008 at 1:56 PM I am so sorry sweetie!   Please know that I am here for you when ever you need to talk. 

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kusto...
Jun. 9, 2008 at 2:11 PM i am so sorry! i had a miscarriage between my girls...... my heart goes out to you.

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rocki...
Jun. 9, 2008 at 3:55 PM Oh momma, big hug and kisses to you. My condolences to you and your hubby. Take care and be strong.*

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gusti...
Jun. 9, 2008 at 3:58 PM i am so so sorry for your loss i a have been through  it 8 times my self and it is very hard take care hope you feel better soon

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nana....
Jun. 9, 2008 at 4:01 PM I'm really sorry, Tracy.  Again, if there is anything I can do for you, let me know.

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MissM...
Jun. 10, 2008 at 12:50 AM I am so sorry for your loss...I understand your pain. Be strong. If you need to talk you can always write me.

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