okay.. when I get into an argument, I was taught young not to yell. My dad would always say first one to yell loses the fight. So the evil personality trait that bubbled up from that is my sarcasm and my smart mouth.. both very different believe it or not. oh and I have the uncanny ability of making those around me feel stupid. I don't understand this "power" yet, since i don't realize i am doing it. The sarcasm is so hard to kill, though. It's like my only way of venting... i don't yell, scream, cuss, throw things or hit things/people.. I just get sarcastic... unfortunately i see the trait in my 5 yr old and am trying to control it in her, so it doesn't get out of hand. keep your fingers crossed for me..