Just because

[pandakim02]

 Take a wild guess do you think I breastfed my daughter?

Let me give you a little background.  She is an All-American scholar, she is a student ambassador for this great country.  She has never brought home a note from school with a mid level grade they have all been high.  She has never been in public trouble.  Her weight is very healthy for her age. She spends very little to no time at the doctor unnecessarily.  No I did not breastfeed not for lack of effort).  I hear all these woman who have the wonderful ability to breastfeed.  Belittle those who cant and say that their children will be smarter or healthier..  It amazes me to hear this, Is my child the only exception out there?  Surely not!   As far as circumcision is concerned, my husband is not circumcised and HE himself made the decision that if our boys did not have hypospadias penises, as he does they WOULD be circumcised. who better to know if it should or should not happen.  It was out of his experience that he made this decision.  I do vaccinate even though I have a child in the spectrum.  he already is in it why would I chance him getting anything else or losing him to illness, when I can very easily prevent it.  I did not personally do CIO but if you do it is your choice. If you circumcise or not is your choice, if you breastfeed or not again it is your choice!!!  Do not take all the things you hear on here to heart, don't let it get you down.  Its your life live it to the best of your ability.  These were just the things we did in our family it in no way entitles me to be able to say I am better than you or my kids will be smarter or less smart than yours.  This is just some thoughts i have had recently.  I am in no way writing this to stir things up or cause drama in fact I choose to be drama free and I think that it is why when people say these things it does bother me. In closing I would just like to say you make your choices and ill make mine.  you live your life and ill live mine.  I enjoy making the friends I have on here soooooo much, but please don't criticize my choices and I wont criticize yours.  HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY TO ANYONE WHO READS THIS AND MAY YOU FIND PEACE IN YOUR HOMES AND HEARTS!!!