I wish I knew why I felt like this

[ArmyNGMom]

I have a bad feeling that DH is not happy in his marriage to me. It started last night I wanted to cuddle up next to DH and fall asleep. Well DH pushed me away from him and hogged all of the blanket so I grabbed another blanket and curled up on my side of the bed and went to sleep. I wounder if he is so stressed out that might be why he is not being loving towards me or what I feel like I am a piece of shit for a wife, since it seems like I can't do any thing right to please my husband. I bust my rump to clean the house, do the laundry, the dishes and ever thing else. I think some of the stress between me and DH I think is all the drama the DSS ( darling step son) has caused , and the finacal issues and every thing else. I am ready to tell DH maybe he should find some one else and DH has told me he does not want any one else he loves me, I knocked his socks off when we met for coffee. But it just seems like DH and I are very distant acting towards each other and we don't have a love life, except for when he wants it and I am never in the mood for making love. I just don't know what to do any more.

[ReesesDream]

Jun. 19, 2008 at 10:21 AM

aww...I'm so sorry.  Finances and children can put a big damper on the way we take care of ourselves and each other.  Try not to get stressed (yeah right).  Stop asking him if he wants someone else, if he said he loves you and only you, maybe you should believe him. (unless he has given you reason not to).

Maybe he just needs a little space to sort things out (finances).  Some men take it very personally if they can't provide for their families the way they want to.  It sounds to me like you are doing and taking care of the things you (feel)  you need to take care of; ie: the house, dishes, laundry, kids....

I wish you the best and will pray for you and your family to get through this difficult patch.