LIFE CAN HAVE A HAPPY ENDING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[pregnantagain07]

I AM GOING TO BE 30 YEARS IN AUGUST. ON MY 17TH BIRTHDAY I MET THE MAN WHO WOULD FATHER MY FOUR CHILDREN.  IN THE BEGINNING THINGS WERE GREAT. FUN-MUSHY-THE GOD FEELINGS.  OVER THE YEARS HE BECAME AGGRESSIVE. THEN CAME LIES AND CHEATING. SAYED WITH HIM UNHAPPY- CONTROLLED-TRAPPED. THE KIDS LOVED HIM THOUGH. HE'S DADDY U CANT TAKE THEM FROM HIM. HE WAS ADOPTED ITS NOT RIGHT. STAY UNHAPPY N MAKE THE KIDS HAPPY, FORGET MY FEELINGS. WELL 12 YEARS INTO THE RELATIONSHIP I FIND OUT IM GOING TO HAVE OUR FOURTH CHILD. HE STARTED SELLING CRACK OUT OF OUR HOME STAYING AWAY FOR DAYS NIGHTS WE STARTED SEEIN LESS AND LESS OF HIM. KIDS ATTITUDES CHANGEDD. I BASICLY WENT THROUGH THE PREGNANCY BY MYSELF. HE HID EVICTION NOTICES FROM ME BECAUSE HE LIED AND SAID HE WAS PAYING THE BILLS. NOPE LOST EVERYTHING I HAD. BOUNCED FROM HOME TO HOME CITY TO CITY. ENDING UP IN A 1 BEDROOM APT. I KEPT US ALL TOGETHER LACKING THE DADDY. HE DID NOT SEE THEM FOR CHRISTMAS FOR WE BROKE UP IN DECEMBER.  I HAD MY BABY IN FEB.  I ALMOST HAD HER ALONE BUT HE SHOWED UP TO CUT THE CORD. LOL. DEAD BEAT. ANYWAY I GOT MY OWN PLACE IN JAN. HE RAN THROUGH HIS TAXES WITH HIS NEW CRACKHEAD GIRLFRIEND. THEN CAME TO DEMAND SPENDING MINE. TOOK WHAT ME AND THE KIDS ESTABLISHED AND SET US BEHIND. WELL IT GOT TO THE POINT I HAD TO TAKE OUT A PPO. YES HE WAS HITTING ME IN FRONT OF THE KIDS. BURNED MY COAT. I WENT TO PLENTY OF FISH AND MET MY SOUL MATE HE TOOK ME IN THE KIDS AWAY FROM ALL OF THIS AND WE ARE SAFE AND HAPPY AND LOVED. SO NOW LIFE ENDS WITH A HAPPY ENDING.  THANKS TO GOD WE ARE HAPPY AND SAFE. GOD LOOKS OUT FOR THOSE WHO LOVE HIM.   TO ALL WOMEN IN DOMESTIC VIOLENCE SITUATIONS YOU CAN LEAVE TO A SHELTER OR THERE IS A WAY OUT .  PLEASE DONT STAY AND BE BATTERED YOU DONT HAVE TO STAY TRAPPED INTIMIDATED CONTROLLED  YOU DONT HAVE TO THERE IS HOPE AND A WAY OUT IM LIVING PROOF. DONT BE AFRAID TAKE OUT A PPO AND USE IT GO TO A SHELTER   SO PLEASE I HOPE U READ THIS AND KNOW THEY DONT WIN, WE DO. LEAVE BEFORE SOMEONE DIES.  MY KIDS SAW ENOUGH. DAUGHTER DREAMS OF BEATINGS AND STABBINGS AND GARBAGE BAGS WITH US CUT UP IN THEM IN SAT OUT FOR TRASH.  SINCE WE MOVED SHE IS DOING SO MUCH BETTER.   GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESSS.

[mommyofmyangles]

Jun. 18, 2008 at 7:56 PM

Well im happy you and your kids made it out safe, and got away from that loser

good luck to you and god bless!! 

[Suz64]

Dec. 10, 2008 at 2:59 PM

Wow..you are a strong person. I am so glad that you and the children got out. I have been in a bad domestic situation, but thank God there were no children there. I sit here ..alone..lonely..scared and wondering if I will ever be happy again . Your post brought tears to my eyes. I guess there always is hope. I am glad that you found someone to make you happy, and be good to you & the children. God bless you !!