I really miss my friend Tiffany. We had some problems in our friendship and couldn't seem to get them worked out and eventually stopped talking. One day her husband called to see if he could drop their son off to play with my kids and I didn't get to the phone in time so the answering macine picked up. I heard him talking to his son about me. Saying some hateful things but what surprised me was the hatred in his voice when he was talking about me. I couldn't believe he was saying that to his son! Had I not heard that he would have shown up at my door being nice as can be! How two-faced can you get? Not only that but what if one day his son repeated things his father said about me to my kids?  Why  would someone talk bad about a person like that to their kids? I don't understand that at all. Anyway I called him and told him that I had heard everything he said and not to call my house again. I haven't talked to him or Tiffany since. I have tried emailing Tiffany. I have sent her a message on myspace but I never hear back from her. I just don't understand why she wouldn't write me back. Its not like we got into a big fight and stopped talking. I don't think I did anything unforgiveable.  The main reason we started having problems is because I became really inactive because of fibromyalgia. I have had fibro for almost 8 years. 3 years ago after having my daughter it just spun out of control. Until then I maintained a totally normal life. Gradually I became less and less active. I never wanted to go anywhere or do anything. I couldn't even seem to keep up with my house and 3 kids. I never wanted to talk on the phone either. I can see how that would hurt a friendship. I really can, but is that enough to make her not ever want to talk to me again? I don't think so. I just keep thinking something isn't right with all of this.  Tiff has told me about things that happened with other friends and she was still friends with them so I don't understand why she wouldn't still be friends with me. I don't know, it just doesn't make sense at all. I really love Tiffany. I haven't had a friend as good as her since jr high and high school. We were so close. I don't think i've ever been that close or open or honest with a friend before.  I really miss her.

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