my husband bitches, whines, and complains about how much of a wreck our house is (and yes it really is a wreck), and then won't do anything to help make it better.  We talk about it, we make lists of things that need done etc, and they never happen.  This weekend (6/21 & 6/22) we were supposed to work on getting some things cleaned out and things put away and the trash around our living room picked up, but instead it didn't happen...  He blames me because I slept til 1 pm both days, but it isn't all me...  He could have started us picking up and what not, but does he......no. 

 Then today (6/22), he bitches because he did nothing all day but drink beer and then got sick because he didn't eat anything all day.  Like its my fault he didn't eat because he  claims I didn't make the list for him to get at the store until late...I handed him the list around 2:30 and instead of going right then he sat and watched the tail end of a movie and didn't go to the store until like 3:30 and then gets back at 5 and complains 3 hours later when everything isn't ready.

He knew when he married me almost 7 years ago that I wasn't the best house keeper in the world and that didn't stop him from marrying me anyway.  But now he expects everything to be fucking sparkling like diamonds....I am just so sick of it all.  I wish he would just fucking lay off or help out when things need done.  Granted he works 5 days a week from 6 to 4:30, but that doesn't mean he can't help sometimes when I need it.  I am a stay at home mom and he says he knows it is a full time job, but i don't think he really does.

 Anyway...just needed to vent.

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