Stressing!

[Summersmomma123]

I know this will sound stupid but I really want to be in a serious relationship already. I am so sick of dating guys and you think its going good and then it turns bad. I have said I am through with guys so many times but keep falling for the losers. I just want to meet someone who wants to settle down. I know I am still very young but I just crave commitment. I don't know what to do anymore. We need to start blind dating for single moms or something lol.

[mizkaye]

Jun. 22, 2008 at 11:17 PM Ya know what, I was like you when I was young and then it occurred to me.  I had never dated a 'nice' guy.  You know what I'm talking about?  The 'nice' guy that you told your girlfriends..."I like him, but he's just TO nice"..or the guy you told you couldn't date him because he 'was like a brother' to you or he was 'to much of a friend'.  You know those guys?  I dated good-looking, fast-talking, hard-partying jerks...and I always let the nice ones go.  Usually because they weren't drop dead gorgeous or they didn't have enough money.  Then, one night, I met this guy.  And he was nice.  He was average looking and he didn't have a boat load of money...blue collar.  But he was nice.  To nice...and I almost wrote him off as 'just a friend'...but, then my hot, bouncer boyfriend pissed me off for the last time.  And I told my girlfriend I was going to go out with the 'nice' guy...just this once to see what it was like, ya know?  That was 10yrs ago...we will celebrate our 9th wedding anniversary this November.  I had a son from my first marriage that my husband has raised all these years and we have 2 children together.  He still brings me flowers and calls me his 'beautiful bride'.  He takes care of me when I'm sick and he tells me I'm the smartest person he knows.   He truly enjoys playing with and caring for our kids and he works incredibly hard to take care of us.  My advice to you?  Find the 'nice guy' you turned down, call him up and ask him out.  Experience tells me you won't regret it!  Good luck!

[Summersmomma123]

Jun. 23, 2008 at 12:48 AM I know exactly the kind of guys you are talking about. And I am friends with this guy that I let go cuz he was too loving and caring and I have really thought about going out with him again. He seemed really excited to start hanging out with me again. I really liked him he was just too nice it seemed. Thanks a lot for the advice. :)

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