Sometimes I hate unwanted advice and controlling people! UGH

  • June 24, 2008 at 5:29 AM by Pregomommy255
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My grandmother is always on me about taking care of my son... I know what to do with my child!  But she is always calling me and telling me what to do... Like one day we went to dinner with the whole family and I went to hand my son to my mom and she told me that she gets him before my mother! Im like I dont freaking think so!  She is always handing him to strangers in public and I dont know what to do!  I tell her to back off but she just wont listen!

Then today my son woke up at 5 am and I rocked him back to sleep and it is now quarter to noon and he hasnt woke up yet and she keeps telling me to wake him up... Everytime i wake him he is super cranky... but what 3 month old wouldnt be..  So I went up and tried and he was really cranky so he went back to sleep and she has the nerve to call me and tell me that im a bad mother... because i let my son sleep this long... wtf he is my child and he is still tired... how does that classify me as a bad mother?  I just dont like to wake him up when he is going to be cranky!

What more can I do?  Im so frustrated and everyday she is telling me what to do and how to do it... I dont want to keep telling her off like this but she needs to freaking learn that he is mine and Kyles child...  She tells everyone that she is the grandmother when she isnt...  She is trying to replace kyle and i and my mother and it makes me so angry!

Comments:

zhara...
My mother  and her real fathers mother is like that and what i did was tell her that Zhara is mine and i know what i'm doing so butt out....i limit my mothers visits by telling her i'm out or busy when she wants to come over and john has to monitor his mother.  My mother aslo has the habbit of saying that she was the better mother when she wasnt and likes to tell me that her kids did this and her kids didnt do that. so believe me when i say i know exactly how you feel

zharas_mommy Jun. 27, 2008 at 7:19 PM

Prego...
It just drives me freaking crazy!  Then she tells people things that arent true about his medical problems... And when i try and correct her she freaks out on me..  I just am tired of telling her to but out because i literally have told her everyday since he was born!  My mom isnt so bad she lets us raise him how we want but my grandmother is the one doing all of this... so she is his great grandma and she always says to me well you could have had twins like her and lody da! rrrr its so aggravating!

Pregomommy255 Jun. 28, 2008 at 12:16 PM

Carle...

I'd just tell her to F-off and not speak to her anymore.  But then again I don't have a problem writing off people who create nothing but drama in my life (I didn't talk to my mom for 5 years, mind you!)

I know it sounds disrespectful, but she obviously doesn't respect you, and it sounds like she needs to be on some serious medication!!! 

CarleneandChris Jul. 13, 2008 at 6:53 AM

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