paternity testing!!!

[AsianBeauty]

so here is another question!! so her daddy knows i had my lil beautiful gurl!! but the thang is he dont want to get in the picture because he dont know if harmony is really his kid or not!! he has not done nothing yet for us and im 100% sure after we get the test done he wont either!! in this matter though i know he has like a couple other lil ones running around!! thing is do you guys think that it would be smart for me to insist on getting a test done or do you thank i should just leave the matter alone and just go on my marry lil way!!!

[DDry]

Jul. 1, 2008 at 10:15 AM I think if he proves to be the father, he could always come back later and do something stupid like try to get visitation or even custody.  Unless you really really need the financial support, I would let it go and leave it alone.

[tami06]

Jul. 2, 2008 at 8:37 PM What will it prove? that he's the father? Big deal! If you want him to be financially responsible or really just so your daughter will know later (if she chooses to contact him) then absolutely. But, if it's to prove to him that he's the father and he still chooses not to be in her life, then that's his loss. But to push his daughter on him....why? He may resent her and do more harm than good. JMO