i love the inconsiderate jerk

[momma117]

so my daughter,avery is 2 months old,coliky & has acid reflux,needless tosay she cries..ALOT. MY son is home now on summer vacation. And so a few weeks aso my bf decided he was going to florida to his cousins wedding and left 2 days ago and will be gone for another 4 days. The whole time he was planning this i kept asking him not to go that i needed him here, that my only sanity during the day is when he gets home from work and takes the baby. He kept saying i would be fine and he needed to go,like no one would understand he has a newborn baby and can't go??? why is it that men think with thier heads up thier asses?? wouldn't it be great to up and go on a weeks vacation with no kids,no worries about anything?? But i couldn't do that now could i? what if i left? i can't can i? no because not only would he go absolutley insane(as he does with only ONE hour of crying) but she is only 2 months old and she needs me.. must be nice to be daddy

[MSugarKane]

Jun. 27, 2008 at 8:57 PM I agree..I am coming back as a male next life! My DH is away on yet another golf vacation (4 days) , fifth time since last October , leaving me a golf widow status here.  What urks me is I can sure use a vacation. A real vacation. Not just flying to my daughters house to visit my grandchild. But those cute little golf balls are more enticing. 

[jessismom07]

Jun. 27, 2008 at 9:05 PM OMG my boyfriend is the complete worst but yes I do love him and he is the father of my child but he drives me insane with just going off 2 the garage or doing things for other people playing the I WORK MY ASS OFF ON MY JOB CARD!!!!!! He has a very hard time lending a hand to me with Jessica I mean what did you think having a baby was going to be like. she's one now so things aren't so hard anymore but come on I need the space for an hour or so. MEN.....WHO DO SOME OF THEM THINK THEY ARE!!!!!!! I thought I was getting a guy that was going to be all about it but instead I got half that. I got jipped.

[crazysweet]

Jun. 27, 2008 at 9:49 PM it is kinda crazy how having children doesn't change their lives. mine still goes out aferwork all the time w/o notice, has friends. its a little sad though b/c our daughter is 2 and she always comes to me for stuff and to play never to him b/c he never took the time. it was easy to let mom handle it while he did what he wanted. now he looks at her confused when he picks her up and she starts crying and reaches for me.