Pissed over bitchy neighbor need to vent

[goingnuts41]

I don't know what's crawled up my neighbors ass all of a sudden.We have lived next to her for 17yrs,no problems.My husband has helped her shovel he driveway,my son since he's been old enough has helped her do her lawn.Just being neighborly and helping when we can,She's not elderly only around 50 now.When we moved in her kids were 14 and 12 so I know how they acted.

Well here's where she is being a bitch.She has called the fire dept twice on my oldest (17) for haveing a small fire in the backyard.Both times the fireman tell him it's fine has long has he's not burning garbage and it's not high.Now she has called the cops cause him and his friends,one of which is her nephew.had firecrakers.Cop laughed told them to do it in woods where she can't see them and said she was a phyco bitch.Now today she followed my daughter and her friends to the girls house and told her mother that there is no supervision at my house cuz I'm afraid of my kids and don't come out of the house!! Yeah ok.

I spoke to her sister who lives on the other side of her and who's son and mine have been together since they were babies.Of course she was on her sister's side,saying she never see's me out and the kids all go wild at all hours of the night.I was like oh and your kids not one of them.I told her well guess what I just got of the phone with the cops,the baby I watch her mom is a deputy sheriff,I said and if she wants to keep it up she will be brought up for harrassment!! So then she was oh well she's been sick and had to still get up and go to work.I said oh so that gives her the right to be a bitch.I said well I'm  also haveing her son's police records pulled since she wants to play and thinks my kids are bad at least they haven't been arrested since the age of 14 for drugs and other stuff!! Along with her nephews,her brother,plus her brother was just charged with rape made the front page of the paper!

The kids want me to do something to get even but I said not just yet the not saying or doing anyhing is gonna drive her more nuts.Plus if we do she will just call the cops,this way when she keeps it up it will be her door they are knocking on.Her nephew came over little while later and I was like sorry Ben guess you can't be here cuz I don't watch you.He goes yeah my mom told me and I told her to shut up and stay out it she didn't know what she was talking about..lol.Made me feel kind of good that he was sticking up for me.

Well sorry so long I just really needed to vent.I'm kind of courious has to what you all would do in this situation though Thanks for at least reading.

[susie_2008]

Jun. 27, 2008 at 10:05 PM Hmmm been there,i had a neighbor like that once..the rest of us neighbors chased her out of the neighborhood.lol

[energeticmommy]

Jun. 27, 2008 at 10:10 PM

I had a neighbor like that once when I was like 15 (i'm 21 lol) My dad would not allow me to have boys in the house PERIOD. So we would hang out in my front yard/porch or back porch. He hated us because he was old, and we were teens (my siblings and I) So one night he called the police making crazy claims about my friends and I selling dope in my yard and breaking in his house/car ofcourse he had NO evidence and we didn't do any of that. What he didn't know was the responding officer was a family friend. (We lived in a small town) Hmm pretty funny!

I'd say though, keep an Eye on your kids okay? Because they may go behind your back to 'get even'. Which I did, one day when I knew he wasn't home a friend and I went to my neighbors and cut his cable cords and turned on both his hose' and let his water run all day!

[pbjmomi]

Jun. 27, 2008 at 10:21 PM I had to deal with a neighbor that had "ghetto" people in front of our houses... we lived in the same duplex and shared a porch area and she always had people who acted disrespectful in front of our house. My daughter was 1 year at the time and she would always stand by our front door and look outside, so I didn't want these people standing here cursing and carrying on in front of her like that. After confronting my neighbor nicely, she got mad at me and we both ended up calling the cops on each other. At the end of everything we actually became civil as it turned out that her sisters (who lived with her) were the ones with the bad company. Still, I hope I never have to deal with someone like this again.