Feeling out of my mind.

[winkyamy]

 I just don't know what to feel or how to feel.  I am so upset .  Mainly it's because my husband thought it was funny to put that he was in an open relationship on his facebook and interested in men and woman. He did it to be funny but it hurts like hell.  Then he joined a group that his sister is in and will see this.  And if I know her she will tell her mom and it won't be him that she calls it will be me.  Then I have to try to explain this crap to her that it was just a joke.  I am so upset and mad at him for thinking that was something funny to do.  And it's not.  He just can't see why I could be so damn upset at him about that.  He was like you only care about what other people think of you.  Well, you know what I kinda do because for one his sister will see this crap and it's not true.  That's all I need is it getting back to my family when things are lies.  He had no right to put that out on the internet where everyone can see this.  You know once all my family knows he's on there their going to put him in as a friend.  Uggggg..... I am just to my wits end this morning. 

[heidig_84]

Jun. 30, 2008 at 9:59 AM wow i totaly  understand you how upseting.. and people talk so much and let me tell u specialy fam.. if i know that!! why dont u talk to him and tell him to change what he put in.. that  its not a joke anymore and see what he does.. good luck my friend

[queenanne]

Jun. 30, 2008 at 10:07 AM

First of all........can't he just change it?  Secondly, if it was just a joke........why worry so much?  If HIS mother calls you about it.......tell her to talk to him about it.

I am sorry that you are so hurt by this.  I hope he respects you enough to change his status.  It really shouldn't matter WHY you are hurt.......the fact is you ARE hurt.  He needs to take that seriously and correct the situation.  But, you shouldn't have to deal with the consequences of his actions.  He needs to be the one who explains it to everyone.

[maw_maw]

Jun. 30, 2008 at 1:38 PM

Thats why I wouldnt have a Facebook or My Space account! it spells trouble for a marriage!

I wouldnt believe one thing about anyone on eithr site, dont even go there for one thing

Sorry yu are going thru this, shame yu dont still live in Missouri and Echo and I could meet up with ya, umm but we had the chance at one time and didnt, LOL

hugs and prayers yur way

[racheldefendis]

Jun. 30, 2008 at 11:18 PM hi if you ever want to meet up we can i have a 4 year old boy... and i just wanted to say i agree with queenanne... he needs to do the explaining not you...

[ashlynsmoma]

Jan. 23, 2009 at 2:12 PM

awww men suck sometimes..those sites cause way too many problems for ppl in a relationship!!