Today I found out that my boyfriend was "sorta" cheating on me...but only in the beginning of our relationship.  He has since stopped (which I have proof of).  The thing is, he doesn't know I know, and since it is in the past, I'm not sure if I should even bring it up.  He was only talking to another woman and she lives all the way across the country, so it wasn't like they were doing anything....but I came across an email where he told her he loved her and missed her.  But in the same email, he said he hoped she found happiness.  LIke I said, he has since stopped talking to her...so I'm not sure how to handle this...any suggestions?

Well, it was bugging me so much that I just had to bring it up.  As it turns out, we did have a miscommunication about when we were exclusive...but this happened after that.  He told me that she may not have realized that we were exclusive b/c he did keep leading her on until he could figure out how to break up with her.  Doesn't make that right, but I'm glad he did and that he was honest with me.  I'm not mad at him, but I am very relieved that he isn't talking to her anymore.  Thanks for all your input.

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