I quit...

[kira110782]

At what point does someone give up?  At what point does someone say all the hurt and anger isn't worth it anymore? 

 I am at that point now...I am filing for separation from Daniel.  Last night was it...He decided to put the moves on a friend of mine after I went to bed.  She rejected him...several times and he persisted.  She came to me right away today while I was at work.  Daniel didn't deny any of it.  He admitted he did it...I am done.  Done crying.  Done fighting.  Done raising these kids with him only there occasionally.  He won't be there at all...I am not going to try and deny him visitation...But I will be damned if he gets any sort of custody.  He even went so far as to take KATELYN, our 2 month old daughter, up to Alan's bed and leave her there.  Alan was in with me.  Daniel left our daughter unattended on a bed for I don't know how long!!!!!  All I wanted to do was use every ounce of anger and hurt I had to hurt him.  I didn't.  I have three beautiful children to think about.  They are the only thing keeping me sane...They are keeping me from completely losing it and breaking down. 

[mae1299]

Jul. 4, 2008 at 10:19 PM Sorry to hear you're going through this....I'm here if you need me girl! 

[CREKELLY]

Jul. 4, 2008 at 11:16 PM I am so sorry it is a very difficult decision. You are a great mother and you will come thru this stronger. If you ever need a shoulder or anything believe me I know what you are going thru hit me up.

[nicolerhicks]

Jul. 5, 2008 at 8:13 AM I don't think you are giving up. Some things can't be fixed if one party doesn't care to fix it. It sounds to me he may have given up (not you). If there's anything I can do, let me know.

[MamaJohnson22]

Jul. 5, 2008 at 8:33 AM Im so sorry to hear that! You are definitly not giving up. You are making a decision that will only better you and your children. It will definitly be difficult but you will be able to come out of this stonger than ever before. Remember that you have a ton of support here with us other moms!

[Hunters_Mommie]

Jul. 5, 2008 at 8:38 AM i'll kick his ass. lol. i'm so sorry hun, he is such a jerk. he does not deserve you or those kids. he obviously was more worried about "getting some" then his little girl.. i'm here if u need me.

[kayleezmom]

Jul. 5, 2008 at 9:30 AM Oh Kira...I'm SO sorry! If you EVER need anything please know that I am here for you and will help you anyway that I can.....

[chillemi78]

Jul. 5, 2008 at 9:30 AM Kira, I'm so sorry. If there is anything I can do, please let me know. We never did get around to getting together for coffee after that playdate, so I owe you some good coffee and conversation, you just let me know when you need me!

[JenFromMD]

Jul. 5, 2008 at 10:40 AM wish I could come out today ... my inlaws are visiting.  i'm just so sorry for the pain you must be feeling.  how awful...

[babyt22885]

Jul. 5, 2008 at 11:13 AM I am so sorry hun, please let me know if there is ANYTHING i can do you have my number give me a call. Smooches

[Margaville]

Jul. 5, 2008 at 11:23 AM Ugh...I am really sorry he is putting you thru this...you and the kids deserve better...I am glad you see that!!  Men can be ....well...Men! Grr...hang in there sweetie..You do what is best for you and the kids, and we PWC mamas will all be here when you need us!