I am not big on thinking I need to be skinny or something. It has never been my thing. I love to eat food and all kinds of food. But I feel like I might be gaining too much weight, like my pant size keeps getting bigger. But when I do lose weight, I feel uncomfortable with myself. So I feel kind of stuck.  It doesn't matter to me. The only thing I really do not like is my neck and stomach so much. I know having short hair makes you look fuller as well, and I really don't care too much about growing my hair longer at the moment. What should I do? The reason why the matter came up is because the cleaning lady at work, (who I speak with occasionally) says I have got a little fatter. Then I asked my mom and she said well, however I am happy but if I gain anymore weight she is going to tell me to start losing a little bit of weight. I don't know. 

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Jul. 6, 2008 at 12:02 AM

I think you look GREAT! It could be that your weight is shifting, not necessarily your gaining it.

If you are happy with yourself then stay the way you are. You look happy and healthy and by George that's all that matters! :O)

Tell the cleaning lady she needs to spend more time doing her job than looking you up and down. lol

Have a great weekend!

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