Sorry about the delayed update

  • July 8, 2008 at 7:50 AM by shonna1968
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I just wanted everyone to know that I made it through the surgery. I have to say that that was by far the worst thing I have ever gone through. I think That I would rather give birth 100 times than to go through that again. However, it looks like that may be a possibility. Part of the surgery didn't hold (because of the Ehlers-Danlos, so I might be up against another surgery. I appreciate all of the thoughts and Prayers that were sent in my direction. Thanks to all of you.

Now I'm so confused about what to do in my relationship. We have been together for almost 4 years and he is so insecure that he requires undivided attention. I can't read, use the computer or do anything when he is home, otherwise he says that I'm completely ignoring him and that he is ready to give up because he can get the same effect alone.  Can anyone relate to this. I have never been in or seen a relationship where one person is sooooo needy. I have to be holding his hand and practically glued to his hip if he's not at work. We are fighting right now and I told him that I had had enough and was moving out by this weekend. I really love him and don't want to leave, but I can't keep living like a prisoner. I don't really have the income to find a place either. I'm disabled and live check to check. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks to you all again.

Shonna

Comments:

UTZY

suggestions?  me---i would be outta there, in a new york minute!   it just doesn't sound like a healthy environment for you.  (you already have health problems.  our emotions affect our physical health.)

UTZY Aug. 21, 2008 at 6:59 PM

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