Well me & Ray were talking last night & were thinking that this might be our last baby! This would be our 4th baby & it makes me sad just to think that it could be our last. Just the thought that I couldnt have any more makes me sad!! Right now we couldnt afford anymore than we have right know & im already 30. I really dont want to be in my late 30's & having another baby.

 Well we were thinking about our opitions & were leaning more towards me getting my tubes tied. I was wondering if anybody knows when they do it? Ray said that they can do it after you give birth but I was under the impression that you will nedd to go under so that they can cut you open to do the procedure. Can they do it immediatley after you give birth vaginally?

 Or is it easier for him to get snipped? I heard that is an in & out procedure for them & they dont have top go under.

 Any info. would be usefull. THANKS!!

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momof...
Jul. 9, 2008 at 9:06 AM As long as you have an epidural they do it like a C section. It is easier if you already are having a C section. If not though I would recommend he just gets snipped. The reason being you would just go through birth then have to have a C section and then have to recover from both and also having a brand new baby.

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malay...
Jul. 9, 2008 at 10:54 AM I personally would not want to go through that surgery immediately after giving birth. From what I have heard it is way easier on the guy to get "fixed" than it is for the woman. Plus you've had 4 kids why ny let him go through a little pain :) lol 

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Harri...
Jul. 9, 2008 at 3:55 PM It SOOOO much easier for him to get snipped, and if you are giving birth vaginally, no way, they;ll have to cut you open like a c-section

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