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[Motherdragon]

I'm having mixed emotions about starting to TTC our next baby.  Both me and my hubby really want another child, but our finacial situation is not sutable for us to have another one right now.  I still afraid that something will go wrong or prevent me from having a sucessfull VBAC.  Though up until the last month or so, I thought those fears were finally over.  I so want to be able to have a beatiful normal natural childbirth to remember.   Not just for me, but for the health of that child being born. But I also want my daughter, Kyra to be old enough to remember it to.  I miss breastfeeding so bad.  I can't wait till I can have to ability to supply those precious nutrience to another child.  I just want things to go right this time.  I want to be able to show other's how great it can be, so it can help to give them the motovation to do it too.

[amileegirl]

Jul. 16, 2008 at 8:15 AM You know they say that after the first, the subsequent children are practically free.  :)

[NoraDun]

Jul. 16, 2008 at 8:58 AM Your strong girl! I know that if you want it bad enough then you can suceed! Every women at one time or another has some doubt and worriee. Especially in the few months before birth! I myself am starting to doubt my ability to have a natural childbirth. I know that I am strong enough but the closer I get the more I worry and OMG Money is always a worry. But honestly do we ever have enough money for kids? Anyway I know you can make it though all your worries girl Good Luck!

[kimberleee382]

Jul. 16, 2008 at 2:08 PM

One thing I know about getting pregnant.

No matter how much you try to PLAN.....

Nothing goes as planned.  Expect the Unexpected.   I say just let yourself get pregnant and THEN figure out the details ; )

[kimberleee382]

Jul. 16, 2008 at 2:09 PM And BTW-  If you WANT a VBAC, all you have to do is promise yourself you'll HAVE a VBAC.  So Mote It Be.

[christy7781]

Jul. 18, 2008 at 4:29 PM I think you will do fine,but you have to believe it yourself.I'm sending nothing but positive energy your way. I also want to commend you on your set thinking of B/F,it is def.the only way I'd go..I have 5 and have B/F for 6 yrs.straight,thats right nonstop.I wouldn't do anything diff. The pure beauty of supplying them all the terrific nutrients that it contains is all worth it to me...Not to mention the way they look up at you knowing they are souly relying on your Milk supply.It's just beautiful nomatter how you look at it.I could go on an on about B/F but your question was on Whether or not you should have another baby,I'd say go for it all the way,Nomatter what the situation is now you'll deal with it Unexpectedly well when it gets here...None of my babies were planned or prevented,it just happened and ofcourse we let it,I think it was much more beautiful that way,just kinda letting things fall into place themselves.We both now couldn't imagine having them any later,an if we wouldve waited untill we were finacially stable,they might still not be here.LOL!!! Let nature just do it's thing,an you do the best you can do when it comes.Everything will be fine,your persistance will make sure of that....Good Luck!!!