HELP

[macks_mommy]

so i got married july 2005 to a guy that i loved and that i thought would be great for me. well then i got pregnant in october/november and he got shipped to korea right after i got pregnant. after he was there for a while things started to take a real toll on us and our marriage. we sorta split around then and in july 2006 i had our daughter. by that time he was tryin to divorce me and wouldn't even answer the phone when i tried to call him to say i had given birth. after that we talked a lot more and decided we were gonna try to work things out. when he came back to the states in november we tried to work on things but it just wasn't gonna work out. so he left for north carolina and i stayed here and began the divorce preceedings. well from there things got drawn out majorly because he decided to mess with me and fought me on custody. i was pretty ok through the whole process since just months after we got married i was left alone even though i was living with my parents. finally in may the divorce became final and i was so happy to finally be free legally. so while i was surfin around on the web tonight i stumbled across a birth announcement for my ex. it said that he had a son on march 30th this year. then i did a little diggin after i found that and saw that he married his girlfriend in like a courtroom setting. after finding all of this out i then find that he's being deployed to iraq again in just over a month. now that all of this new information has come up i feel like my heart got ripped out again. oh i have no clue what to do. i know that i shouldn't feel this way and that he is just moving on since we got divorced but its just one of those back slides that most divorced/divorcing women go through.

[nickynova]

Jul. 17, 2008 at 5:31 AM yeah you may not be together but it will still hurt i'm sorry you are going threw that just try to hold your head up high and trust me you will love again there is someone for everyone

[jody7847]

Jul. 17, 2008 at 5:31 AM yeah I have been there myself. I'm sorry. :(