HA HA ex mil gets to look like an a$$ again at domestic relations

[sunflowerjennw]

Even though Tyler was no longer staying with her we still had the hearing today.  I got the phone call at about 12:15 which it was supposed to start at 12:00 pm. The judge calls and says that Tyler's grandma hasn't shown up yet. I said well I don't look for her to show since the child isn't staying at her house. This has all been a waste of time. He asked if Tyler was 18 and I said yes. He asked when Tyler stopped living with her and I said that the first time was the beginning of December and the second time he left was about a week ago after staying with her for about 3 weeks. I said I don't know for sure that he is going to return to school. I've been told he is enrolled in alternative school, but right now he is living with his dad and his uncle. The living arrangement with grandma will never work anyway. I said I felt that he basically emancipated himself from her when he ran away from her and then quit school. My question is how long is she going to be able to keep hanging this over my head?? Just as he was about to answer that question, she comes in. He put me on speaker phone and I just sat back and listened. I couldn't hear everything she said because she was talking very low. I believe on purpose. Anyway she was trying to tell the judge all of the "good" things she was doing to try and help him get back on the right track. The judge kept trying to ask her questions about whether or not Tyler was there and when he left, that sort of thing. She basically ignored him and kept going on about what she was "trying" to do. I think she thought she was still going to get money, because she was "trying".  The judge finally pinned her down and asked if Tyler was still living with her and she said no. He then said that the only thing he could do was dismiss her request. He asked her if she had any questions and she said no and then he asked me and I said, No sir, Thank you very much!" Then we hung up.  What I wanted to say was, MUWAHAHAHAHA! You stupid b!#$%!    Please let this mean that I will NEVER have to deal with that woman agian. I really hope my son won't either. She deserves to be alone and as unhappy as she tries to make everyone around her.   YAY I felt like a winner today.

 

[couturemom23]

Oct. 18, 2008 at 6:58 PM

hey girl--I am going through a similiar thing! My X makes $101,000/year, stole my kids against their will...and wants me to pay HIM child support---I make maybe 4500/year...what a shmuck. hang tough kid! My XMIL is about 85 now, the 'grande dame' of the 'family'...she still has my X by the short hairs bc he will inherit MILLIONS when she passes...oy. Keep the faith and keep in touch!...Kat~