Hubby's in trouble

[woodsfamily]

So yesterday was his last day in Pensacola. A few of his buddy's are going with him to Lemoore. Well, regardless of that fact and the fact that my dh is underage, the guys decided to get a hotel room and get totally wasted. I called dh three times, not knowing anything of what was going on. He didn't answer cuz he was passed out. One of the guys answers and I know by this point something is going on cuz the guy is stuttering and totally nervous to be talking to me. He told my dh had gone out with the roomates and he'd call me within an hour. This was at 7:30 my time. 2:30 in the morning my time, dh calls and says that when he finally got back, he just passed out on the bed. That they had gone to Logan's for dinner. Yep, eating dinner wore him out. I knew that wasn't the case. There was loud music in the background or else the tv, not sure which. So I told him whatever that I didn't believe him and hung up the phone. His plane left this morning at 7:15. He called me about an hour before then and told me that I should know he lied to me and that they were actually drunk and he had passed out and that was why he didn't call me. I told him I hoped he got sick on the plane. I asked him if he even thought about what the consequences woud be if he had been caught. I asked him if he even thought about dd and I. I feel like he doesn't mean anything that he said about being sorry. He knows I've had a bad dealing with alcohol and he promised he would never get drunk. Yes he would drink but not to the point that he freaking passed out. And he didn't even consider the fact that he is underage! He could have gotten in so much trouble, lose rank, half pay, etc... If he had gotten half pay, we would not be able to pay our bills. He is such an idiot and so immature and irresponsible. Things had been going pretty good the past few days too. I don't understand how he can let things like this jepordize our relationship, our family. When I asked him why he did it he said, "I just wanted to fit in, to be one of the guys." My question is, why does he have to choose those guys to fit in with? I'm sure there are responsible, mature, married marines out there. Why does he have to choose the party boys? And one of them we know for sure is a drunk! He knew this and he still wants to "be one of the guys." Why?!?!?!?! I can't stand it when he acts like this!

[BabyHastingsMom]

Jul. 21, 2008 at 8:35 PM

wow girl, i'd be pretty upset myself. my husband doesn't drink and that is one of the reasons i've always liked him so much (although i must say some of the other things that he chooses to do definitely get on my nerves). i grew up in an alcoholic family and it would hurt so much to see him act that way. I would feel really deceived. i don't understand why guys don't understand how certain things like that hurt so much. i had a long term relationship with someone and ended up leaving him because he insisted on being one of the guys himself. you have a lot more to lose. he needs to see that. boy I'd be pissed.