This just floors me. I cant even believe the way people in this world judge a MOTHER! Before, it did not matter whether you breastfed or formula fed your child as long as it was fed.
Now if you breastfeed, you are criticized for doing it in public.
If you formula feed you are depriving your child.
If you put a harness on your kid so it doesnt get lost, stolen or ran over, you are treating them like a dog.
if you spank your child, you are abusing them.
If you dont spank, your kids are out of control brats.
If you feed them organic foods you are simply nuts and are risking their health.
If you dont feed them organic foods you are simply nuts and are risking their health.
If you are a SAHM you are lazy and just dont want to work.
If you are a working mom, you dont give your child the time or attention they deserve.
Do you see what Im getting at? Nomatter how or what you choose to do as a mother, its always wrong in someone elses opinion. (which we are all entitled to) As long as I see a loving mother that does what she can to take care of her babies, I could care less how she chooses to do it. We are all mommies and we are all different. I accept that. i JUST WISH MORE PEOPLE SEE IT THE WAY I DO!
(I knew if I posted this elsewhere, Id get accused of wanting to start drama) I just had to get that all out! Whew.........I feel a little better.
I didnt start noticing it so much until I joined cafemom:( Im glad I also get a lot of support and helpful advice on here.
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momofmn Jul. 19, 2008 at 4:46 PM