She is hurting so much!!

[jherrera]

I thought I would be happy when My daughter brake up with her boyfriend, but I'm not at all I feel so bad for her. it's only been a few days but she cries every night, we both been because she is hurting so much, she crying in my arms thats it's killing me to see her this way. we talked about getting some help for her to get over this. She didnt say no so I think she is considering it, which is a good thing. I dont think she can do this on her own, he has put her through so much this last year. she finally agrees that he just isn't for me. she will learn from this, for her next relationship, she's not thinking of that right now ,but she will not let a man treat her this way, she was blinded with love. I think we have all done this at least once. but it can be very painfull. I pray he will leave her alone so she can get over him, she will never forget him because she loves him so much but this is why she needs the help. thank you to everyone for your replies on this matter, i appreaciate it alot, I kinda new that she would need help besides from me but it's good to hear it from other people to know if i'm doing the right thing. thanks again.

[Valleylily]

Jul. 21, 2008 at 1:02 AM I don't know how old your dd is but I remember when my mom made me break up with a looser I was dating at a way too young of age.  Breaking up with this guy was the best thing I ever did in my life.  Now I have a wonderful dh who is a gizillion times better than that guy!  It was painful for me, but I think it hurt my mom more when I cried than it ever did me!

[Mum24boyz]

Jul. 23, 2008 at 1:16 AM

We've all been through this..i feel so bad for her...but I'm glad you guys are so close..it will help her greatly to have such a wonderful mom.

[witchyeyes]

Aug. 15, 2008 at 1:03 AM

my youngest twin dd hooked up and stayed with a complete loser we tried everything ..to get her to see he was not (the one),well he gave her two beautifull kids that we love with all of our Hearts,,,,and then got her hooked on Drugs ,,right along with him,,he is now in jail looking at prison time and she will be leaving soon too for prison...She was 16 when she got with (him),,she is now 29& i don't know what we did wrong. our other 3 kids turned out fine ..and she is a good person just to easily led .. you are a stronger mom than i was , i tried to get her to break up with him for years,nothing ever worked,,,ur lil girl is hopefully smarter than mine was ......best of luck to both of you   

[TWMstngMom]

Sep. 26, 2008 at 6:45 PM

I know exactly what you are talking about. My dd did the same thing. She broke up with him her sophomore year, but he haunted her thru the remainder of her high school years because no one would ask her out cause they knew who her ex was, and didn't want to get him mad. Now isn't that ridiculous. He did a real job on her - her self esteem is so low even to this day, it's a struggle to get her to realize that she is beautiful. Be thankful that  you two are close and she talks to you. I thank God every day for the relationship I have with my daughter - Daughters are one of a kind....Hang in there..it does get better...I promise

[BUTTERFLYLALA]

Nov. 10, 2008 at 11:08 AM

I JUST WANT TO COMMEND YOU ON THE RELATIONSHIP YOU SEEM TO HAVE WITH YOUR DD.. I CAN ONLY HOPE THAT THE FIRST TIME MY DD GETS HER HEART BROKEN SHE WILL FIND HERSELF IN MY ARMS AS YOUR DD DID ......THANX FOR THE INSIGHT OF WHATS TO COME......