I have a friend who is accusing my husband of trying to have sex with her, my convo is in red and hers is in blue
So anyways heard paul got a 120 days in Gregs house... that means Greg has to transfer houses and we can't have much contact beyond emailing, we can't visit you or do anything with ya till paul gets out. Sorry, it paul can use that to get back at Greg and Greg can get into trouble out there.
Ok...for one..we never do anything or really talk anymore anyways. And it's not my problem that he ended up there. You talk like its my fault that greg has to transfer and that paul happened to land in there. Sorry but it's not. And did Greg tell you to tell me all this? Well thats funny because when you were at work one day last week...he randomly showed up at my house. And the night after...he got off work and told you that he was late because there was a fight...weather there was a fight or not..he still showed up at my house at like 10:30pm or something like that. I haven't seen him since. And me being the FRIEND that I am...even though I haven't been around much...basically I turned YOUR HUSBAND down. Because you are my FRIEND. And on yahoo messenger...I "chatted" with him to see how far he would try to go without you knowing..and it was pretty damn far. And, I will end it with one thing. The night Greg told you that there was a fight at work, he actually came over and KISSED me when I walked out the door of my house. And yes I have told paul about it. He's not very happy. So one day Greg just started showing up at my house...and was back the next. Nooo..I never had any intentions of anything happening. I would NEVER do that to you. You were there for me through thick and thin. And I would hope you would be there again for future reference. But your so called HUSBAND was talking about leaving the house...telling you he was going for a drive..and commin over here to take me out and ...well..yea..im pretty damn sure you know what I was going to say next. But I'm not going to because that is VERY disrespectful. Im sorry but I felt you needed to know. I feel bad and I didn't do anything. I just basically after the first day of him comming over, I "tested" him to see if he would actually mess around on you or not. And honey let me tell you. He will. Got questions? email me back here. But weather you believe me or not. I do still Love you. And I may not always be around..but when this started happening..i was debating on how i was going to tell you. I have absolutly NO reason in this world to Lie to you...No reason what so ever. Hope to hear from you soon. Love you. Bye
Well for one no Greg did not tell me to tell you this. He told me yesterday morning that he had seen paul in his house. For two, I was just telling you that so that you would know why we weren't going to meet up and talk to you anymore. And I know it isn't your fault that he got sent there and it isn't your fault that Greg has to transfer houses.
And for three if you think that the other stuff would bother me it did. He told me that he did go over to your house twice. He told me that both nights, and on the night that there was a fight, there was blood on his shirt and we ran into one of the Sargent's last week and he confirmed that there was a fight on Gregory's wing. He was never really late to pick me up but a couple of times.
Also I just don't know what to believe any more. Greg wouldn't lie to me he actually has more to lose if he did lie to me, I can't believe that I am in this situation again.
Ok Tara..get CHEATED on. I have friends that can VERIFY everything that I have said. And you say he wouldn't lie to you..but then you say you can't believe you are in this situation AGAIN..hmmm..whats that say? Listen to youself tara. Sorry I tried to be a Good Friend and not keep shit from you. Tryin to help you and Kyrie out. Good thing they moved Greg tho..because I was talking to Mikey on the phone when it happend and paul is PISSED! But i would be to if i was him. And its pretty sad that i had to tell Greg to LEAVE...cause he flat out said he didn't want to. I just think he should be a man and OWN UP to things. But its your life not mine...just trying to get you to understand..marraige apparently dosent mean the same thing to him as it does you. I know you better than that and you take alot of meaning out of things. Kinda funny he said he signed his "funeral" papers the day you got married. Kinda funny how you don't believe me. But i know you don't want to believe me but its all true. I DO NOT want your husband...if you cant tell..he is soooooooo not my type at all. And he isn't even attractive. Sorry. But its what you like not me. And you should know my likes...look at paul. Kinda big..kinda gangster wannabe white boy....bad boy..yea. you know. And one more thing...your husband gave me a hug before he left...and he really needs to calm that thing in his pants...im not taht damn attractive. But I love you anyways weather you believe me or not. Like i said. I have been your friend for along time...may not always be around..but ive still been there. So take it how you want. I've never had a reason to lie to you either. But your the one that sais your in this situation...yet again. bye.
The previous situtation involved a friend of mine when I was living in Wichita KS who said my husband was driving to KCMO to try to sleep with her, like I wouldn't notice him being gone for 7 hours out of the day... hummm.... not going to happen. I don't don't know what to make of this, I know in my heart that he wouldn't cheat on me, and all of our good friends know he wouldn't either. BTW, her boyfriend is in prison, and my husband is a prison guard so and her boyfriend is in his house, so he is moving houses even so we can't have contact with her. I am trying to figure this all out. I removed her name and changed her boyfriends name. I am disturbed by this.
*UPDATE* my last response to her
Okay, I have thought about what I am going to say next, and it will be my very last contact with you for a long time, if I see you at work I will not serve you I will go to the back and have someone else do it. What my situation was you do not understand, I had a friend 31/2 years ago when I was living in Wichita who was accusing my husband of driving to KCMO to try to sleep with her, she said he was doing this during his military issued classes that only lasted 3 hours (and let me tell you if he did miss those classes I would know because he would have been brining home paperwork), it takes at least three hours to get from Wichita to KCMO, there was no way he was driving that far without my knowledge, for I would notice the car was running out of gas, or that that particular week more gas was put in than I remember driving. It didn't happen. Just like I really do not believe he did anything this time. Thing is when Greg and I first started dating he did cheat on me, and I did to... He came right out and admitted to me that he did so, and so did I. He has, what shall I say an honest streak, and when he is hiding something I know it, and he ALWAYS ends up telling me. I can also tell when he is being truthful, and not hiding something. I questioned him, and he was telling the truth when he said that nothing happened. Oh and if you think that him giving you a hug was going to bother me, he is like me we HUG all of our friends.
Oh and we both joke about signing our funeral papers the day we got married...
I forgot to put this in there to. A good friend would never put there spouse to the "test" that is just wrong to do, a good friend would be happy for the other person, and just let things be. That is what I am most upset about, the fact that you thought it would be okay to "test" Gregory. I trust him, and you should have too. Then one more thing, Gregory wouldn't be stupid enough to try anything with any of my friends.
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wow i am sorry :(
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