you know there are so many single mothers who want to be loved. alot of us look so fast. some of us take time. sometimes they are even in front of us the whole time and, we do not even realize. that was how i got with my honey. i read about moms who question about the person who they are with. they get hurt so fast. men go after single women easier. even with kids. it is easier for them to hook women in and, get away with it. we are strong. do not fall in love so fast. think about what your kids want to . let them be around the person to . i had a friend who had six kids and, was seperated from her husband since almost day one of marriege and he lived with someone else, and even had kids with her. still she let him come back and had more babys. then when she started to date she did not tell the men she had all those kids afraid to scare them off. they only wanted one thing, for the reason , when they saaw all the kids they would bolt. it was hard for her to find someone for a single mom. even finally finding some one she had another baby, but he was always gone again. he needed her for the place to stay, her o co sighn his car, get him rims for the car in her name. i hated to see that happen to some one who only really wanted someone to be with her and, apperiate her kids no matter how many there were. please do not fall under some crack stupid spell when trying to find someone. there are even men you can meet and, have as a close friend first. they could even help you . in the end you never know that friend you might alredy have just might be the one you really are suppost to be with. i know my husband is my friend , lover, and soul mate.![]()
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