It must be remembered that we are all subject to rape: those who have been raped, those who may be raped and therefore have their lives altered, and those who are related to the victims of rape.
THE LAW DISCRIMINATES AGAINST RAPE VICTIMS in a manner which would not be tolerated by victims of any other crime. In the following example, a holdup victim is asked questions similar in form to those usually asked a victim of rape.
"Mr. Smith, you were held at gunpoint on the corner of 16th & locust?"
"Yes."
"Did you struggle with the robber?"
"No."
"Why not?"
"He was armed."
"Then you made a conscious decision to comply with his demands rather than to resist?"
"Yes."
"Did you scream? Cry out?"
"No. I was afraid"
"I see. Have you ever been held up before?"
"No."
"Have you ever given money away?"
"Yes, of course - "
"And did you do so willingly?"
"What are you getting at?"
"Well, let's put it like this, Mr. Smith. You've given away money in the past - in fact, you have quite a reputation for philanthropy. How can we be sure that you weren't contriving to have your money taken from you by force?"
"Listen if I wanted - "
"Nevermind. What time did this holdup take place, Mr. Smith?"
"About 11 pm."
"You were on the streets at 11pm. Doing what?"
"Just walking."
"Just walking? You know that it's dangerous being on the street that late at night. Weren't you aware that you could have been held up?"
"I hadn't thought about it."
"What were u wearing at the time Mr. Smith?"
"Lets see. A suit. Yes, a suit."
"An expensive suit?"
"Well - yes."
"In other words, Mr . Smith, you were walking around the streets late at night in a suit that practically advertised the fact that you might be a good target for some easy money, isn't that so? I mean, if we didn't know better, Mr. Smith, we might even think you were asking for this to happen, mightn't we?"
"Look, can't we talk about the past history of the guy who did this to me?"
"I'm afraid not Mr. Smith. I don't think you would want to violate his rights now, do you?"
Naturally, the line of questioning, innuendo is ludicrous - as well as inadmissible as any sort of cross-examination - unless we are talking about parallel questions in a rape case. The time of night, the victims previous history of 'giving away' that which was taken by force, the clothing - all of these are held against the victim. Society's posture on rape, and the manifestation of that posture in the courts, help account for the fact that so few rapes are reported.
This small piece is so clear on the injustices - legal, cultural, attitudinal - that are visited upon women who are victims of rape, that it's used everywhere - in women's studies courses (thats where i found this info while in college), in rape crisis centers, in training seminars for police and social workers - yet no one seems to know its origin. The author still remains unknown.
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Blame_Me76 Jul. 28, 2008 at 7:32 AM