omg i can't take anymore

[soldiermom1988]

well ladies my son made his choice saturday......we let him come home wednesday with rules and regulations 1 is to get a job immediatly and 2 take care of his issues fast and by him self.....the whole time he was home and my husbanmd and i were working he would sleep til about 1 pm lay around make a mess and skate board.......so come saturday we said ur running out of time and he's like I'll be alright" his answer to EVERYTHING!!!!!we were all suppossed to go to the pirate game together for a late mothers day gift cause he was on his 2 week drill on mothers day.well that morning he said he isnt going cause he was planning to se th gf....I flipped....then he said well you guys don't do shit for me I am leaving and he left but all of his shit is in my garage....what now I am so fed up and that bitch of a gf sent me a nice blog on myspace.....I need to know how to walk away from this shit and what to do with his belongings...havent heard from him and don't think i will. but he has been contacting my neice for money and to use her car.........I'm so hurt and pissed...How do I let my son go when I know it s right in the arms of the DEVIL!!!!!!!uuuuuuuggggghhhhhh........

[DuckiesAngel]

Jul. 30, 2008 at 8:40 AM

seems like you should use what my Mom called "tough love " tell him he can not come back ...tell him you have been hurt enough and you will not go through it anymore and until he gets himself together don't ask for your help.....and this GF of his ....let her be the immature one ...she wants to leave blogs and act like a child treat her like one  anytime you see her no matter WHERE you are ......it might take awhile but sooner or later he will come to his senses and realise ...your mom is there even when the girl is gone ...I will keep you and your family in my prayers ......if you need to talk  I am here !