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[mommyjammie]

well life has been interesting to say the least since july 18th if you dont know me and you are reading this I know it maybe long but please read it all and give me all the advice you can I really need it..

Okay it all started with me comeing home on July 18th with a birthday cake for my husband it was his 25th birthday to find that he had been picked up on breach of he cso for thouse of you that dont know a cso is a condisonal sentice order..
and was in Jail so we went to court the following monday and they remanded it till this mondy so anyway he managed to get his jaw broken in Jail I dont know the hole story there but he was saposed to be in pc they say he was but with a cell mate it was his cell mate that attacked him, He says he didnt say or do anything that the guy just started beating on him..anyway I had to go down and give a statment about him breaching and yada yada yada and they said that unless I file for sepershion childrens aid wont back off me because of his origanol charges so I have started that proses with him still in jail with a untreated broken jaw and though it is killing me inside I am following through because I know its what needs to be done..But now him mom and her bf are saying its my fault that he is in jail and that his jaw is broken and that I had better call the ombence men tomorrow and get something done for him and make sure he gets out of jail or I had better watch my self..they say they are on the way down here now they are a 8 hour drive away I dont know what to do all my doors are locked and I wont let them in if they buz but I am in a apartment and on the ground floor and they know where the belcony is and it would not take much to pop the lock on the slideing glass door I am scared that they are really on the way but the cops say because its such a far drive and they cant have someone come watch the place that I just have to wait and see if they show..
this is so hard and so scared I am not aplying for the sepershion to be mean to my husband in anyway its just what I need to do for me and my daughter I just wish I knew what to do I wish I had someone to talk to too be here for me please if you have any advice or want to know more reply

[Tusie]

Jul. 29, 2008 at 12:03 AM

Im sorry this is happening sweety. I dont really have any advice, but I am here for you.