First off I would like to say thank you for all of your comments!!! 


It isn't like he doesn't know what the web site is about.  I have read him many topics and jokes.  I really think it is a whole jealousy issue, with what I do with my time.  I really don't have a problem with him reading my things, We live the exact same life and we communicate very well.  Usually!   I just do not like being told I have to do something in a demanding way.  Call me stubborn or call him stubborn.  As for the comment of him doing the exact same thing to me.  I don't have a jealousy issue, but I really haven't had to deal with him in a chat room or any other kind of group forum before.  He really doesn't like the internet.  I guess I would totally freak out though, if I didn't know what he was on.  He knows what I am on though.  I think it was he wanted to fight to get attention.  He got it!!!!!   LOL  Anyways thanks again for all the comments!!!!

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Apr. 3, 2007 at 1:14 PM Ah, well, I don't think he should've been demanding either. You might be spot on about the attention thing. I think we have so many things that can take attention from each other it is easy to get caught up in being on the computer, watching tv etc. Combine all that with work, kids and other day to day responsibilities and you got a lot of lack of attention for each other. :)

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Apr. 3, 2007 at 1:32 PM Well, I guess with so much porn, and Internet sex, men get freaked out about it. I always let my hubby read everything I wright, I guess its cause I expect the same thing from him. I will admit however, that sometimes I'll sneak up behind him to make sure hes not doing any thing wrong. You hubby may be dealing with his own insecurities. but if it causes that much problems, I'd let him read whatever he wants, maybe you should do the same-thing with him, let him see how it feels, Just kidding!!!! Actually, you need to sit down, not accusingly, and TALK not yell at each-other, and lay it on the table. Ask him why he is so upset about it, and try and compromise. Cause you know the saying, "if Momma ain't happy, No one is" Plus it can't be good for the kids. Even if they don't hear or see it, the will still feel the tension.  

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